family vaction..leaving SO

[LostNotFound]

my family wants to go on a vacation and all i can think about is leaving my SO behind. its only for a few days but if we're apart for more than a week when we're in the same town, the mood of the relationship starts changing. hmm am i paranoid? it's only for a few days rigth? i'm in 2 minds. i've grown to attatched to him. maybe we need the time apart to relise what we mean for each other? i don't know.

[Borealis]

Surely the temporary distance in between cannot ruin your relationship? If it can then cause for reconsideration is probably a good measure. At the same time though you must consider your insecurities as it might not be him but a problem of your own. Do you feel that when you are apart he might go astray and involve himself in affairs?

Goodluck,
Borealis

[LostNotFound]

no, noo, nooo. lol what happens is we be apart and i miss him too much and then we argue over why we're apart, he's not making the effort to see me, he's not missing me that sort of stuff. am i being stupid?