What do you look for in a man ?

[Junket]

Confident is saying that u can do something well.
Cocky is saying that ur the best at what you do.

Agree?

You're trying to define something that cannot be concretely defined.

[vashti]

Confident is saying that u can do something well.
Cocky is saying that ur the best at what you do.

Agree?

I think that is close, only I think the cocky guy would say "I am the best at what I do and anyone else who tries it is an idiot".

[jurupa]

Confident is saying that u can do something well.
Cocky is saying that ur the best at what you do.

Agree?

No.

Cocky to me is being funny and macho with a side order of "full of it".

[youreit]

cocky-ness sucks.
a guy who is confident in himself enough to not always think he's unattractive or "good enough" and not be so insecure about himself that he's always jealous of any and every other guy...is totally what I look for..yeah sure having a guy be jealous that another guy is flirting with you is sweet and everything..at times..but confidence is key.
meh...and a guy that I can have a conversation with, without being completely bored by the whole thing...has to have a sense of humor..and has to be understanding. Yep, they all have the 'asshole' attitude in them somewhere, but generally if he's a good guy...he's date-able.

[Gigabitch]

You can tell cocky from confident if you have any kind of bullshit detector at all.