I'm in love with a sex worker...

[Charlie Boy]

"Why don't you try and find yourself a nice girl"

groan, American mothers are like gays. They have their own brand of "camp": mannerisms, a way of talking, an attitude, but it's not camp obviously. No word exists for it yet because I am the first person in the world to identify and articulate this phenomenon. Sometimes I am amazed at my own perceptiveness.

Anyway Fool, stick with your ho', (I mean that in the black women sense, not the sell your body sense). Just keep at her, you've chosen a hard road for yourself, but widest paths are always the least rewarding. Good on you for not being judgmental. Respect.

[vashti]

but widest paths are always the least rewarding.

Widest path... prostitute... should I say it? Nah, it's too obvious.

[love-fool]

"Why don't you try and find yourself a nice girl"

groan, American mothers are like gays. They have their own brand of "camp": mannerisms, a way of talking, an attitude, but it's not camp obviously. No word exists for it yet because I am the first person in the world to identify and articulate this phenomenon. Sometimes I am amazed at my own perceptiveness.

Anyway Fool, stick with your ho', (I mean that in the black women sense, not the sell your body sense). Just keep at her, you've chosen a hard road for yourself, but widest paths are always the least rewarding. Good on you for not being judgmental. Respect.

Thanks man, I appreciate your words. Peace.

[Junket]

I'll always be here if she needs me, and I am a man of my word.

Yeah, being there doesn't mean being there, with her, at all times of her life.

You don't just want her friendship, you want more, don't even ****ing try to fool us into thinking otherwise. And stop lying to yourself.

You're desperate, you're crying for her to see what a wonderful and swell guy you are, by the way, even with a sane girl, there's nothing that will drive them away faster than shit like that.

Shit was already not in your favor based off the fact she's a prostitute*.

If she's gonna change, she's gonna change for herself, by herself.

You know what's funny?

Here we all are trying to knock some god damn sense into your thick ****in' empty skull, when we all know you've already made up your irrational mind. You came here with your disposition pretty much set in stone. So what ****ing advice do you want?

You want us to tell you to keep being that "nice" guy? Keep being her friend until she suddenly realizes what a great guy you are and is swept off her feet by your grandeur? It is about your pride, it is about your ego. You know you've already invested so much shit in this ungrateful (better believe it) person that as I said before, you can't stand the idea of letting it go. Even when it was doomed to failure from the start.

There ain't nothing you can argue that all the other poor whore-lovin' saps haven't argued.

So tell me, is that what you came here to do? Argue?

Because I believe you wanted advice, well, you've been given advice, damn good, REAL advice. Take it, or leave it. But don't come trying to prove shit by arguing with us, because in reality, you're simply arguing with what you already know is true.

[The Great OV!!!]

Great OV, I guess that pretty much answers your question as well,

SO the answer is that you feel sorry for her? and that is why you are with her?

[The Great OV!!!]

You know, I feel sorry for this guy everybody. He must be so poor to try to lure her with his charm...other man just pay.

[Charlie Boy]

OV you're the sort of guy when you're fat, sweaty and middle aged and then starts trotting off to prostites because you freak out about never getting a decent peice of ass when you were younger. Ironic that a man once obsessed with virgins, finishes his days with ladies of the night.

[The Great OV!!!]

OV you're the sort of guy when you're fat, sweaty and middle aged and then starts trotting off to prostites because you freak out about never getting a decent peice of ass when you were younger. Ironic that a man once obsessed with virgins, finishes his days with ladies of the night.

At least I will use cash to lure them and not waste charm. Me? fat? Baaahahaha

[Charlie Boy]

Yeah I'd be holding on to that food-stamp charm of yours.

[Junket]

[URL="http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12537&highlight=prostitute"]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12537&highlight=prostitute[/URL]

[The Great OV!!!]

[URL="http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12537&highlight=prostitute"]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=12537&highlight=prostitute[/URL]

Bahahaha, this sucker can't even get a prostitute with MONEY...lol

[Junket]

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?p=213261&highlight=knight#post21326 1[/url]

Here's an example (minus the prostitute) with the knight in shining armor mentality.

[love-fool]

Yeah, being there doesn't mean being there, with her, at all times of her life.

You don't just want her friendship, you want more, don't even ****ing try to fool us into thinking otherwise. And stop lying to yourself.

You're desperate, you're crying for her to see what a wonderful and swell guy you are, by the way, even with a sane girl, there's nothing that will drive them away faster than shit like that.

Shit was already not in your favor based off the fact she's a prostitute*.

If she's gonna change, she's gonna change for herself, by herself.

You know what's funny?

Here we all are trying to knock some god damn sense into your thick ****in' empty skull, when we all know you've already made up your irrational mind. You came here with your disposition pretty much set in stone. So what ****ing advice do you want?

You want us to tell you to keep being that "nice" guy? Keep being her friend until she suddenly realizes what a great guy you are and is swept off her feet by your grandeur? It is about your pride, it is about your ego. You know you've already invested so much shit in this ungrateful (better believe it) person that as I said before, you can't stand the idea of letting it go. Even when it was doomed to failure from the start.

There ain't nothing you can argue that all the other poor whore-lovin' saps haven't argued.

So tell me, is that what you came here to do? Argue?

Because I believe you wanted advice, well, you've been given advice, damn good, REAL advice. Take it, or leave it. But don't come trying to prove shit by arguing with us, because in reality, you're simply arguing with what you already know is true.

I appreciate your honest opinion, but hey, take a chill pill, please, I didn't come here to argue with anybody, and I didn't come here either to tell everyone about what a "wonderful" guy I am, or whatever, I am a human, and as a human, I'm not perfect.

Okay, I admit that I got a little annoyed at first when I was told to make my initial message shorter because I spent about an hour or so when I typed it, and then I felt like it was just wasted time, I've calmed down now, but I still feel confused about this relationship with this girl, as I already tried to explain, this girl has some serious issues due to a brain surgery that she had last year, and she didn't used to be like that, she wanted to kill herself last year, and maybe she would've if I didn't try to talk with her, she is not easy to deal with when she's upset, and still has some serious depression problems, I've always wanted to let her know that she'll always have in friend in me, because I DO care about her, the escorting is just a rare once in a while thing now, so that's not much of a problem, but she has to deal with calls working at home from sickos wanting to f@ck her little daughter, or necrophiles wanting to abuse her corpse, or other kinds of sick fetishes, sure, she gets paid 5 bucks a minute so she can pay her college and hospital fees, but how do you think she feels when all of this reaches it's peak? I think I just caught her in a bad moment this last weekend, and now all of this mess happened...

And yes, I appreciate EVERY single bit of advise that I've gotten here, but I've already explained why I'm not going to leave her just like that, and I don't care if she's a prostitute, I like her for WHO she is deep down inside, and NOT for what she is.

And I repeat, I didn't come here to argue or to get into a fight, I really didn't, but I still would like to know how can I let her know that I'm missing her without sounding too clingy...

[love-fool]

I can't believe I'm getting trashed like this... so far, vashti, giga-bitch and Charlie Boy have seemed to understand my feelings about this girl, even though I don't pretend to be a "knight in a shining armour", but just a guy friend that isn't nice to her only to get a freebie with it her...

I'm gonna check those links just in case, frasbee...

[The Great OV!!!]

I can't believe I'm getting trashed like this... so far, vashti, giga-bitch and Charlie Boy have seemed to understand my feelings about this girl

Vashti and Giga have seen these threads over and over probably...Charlie Boy just has had alot of practice with hookers.