I can't orgasm during oral

[Carlos The Elf]

I don't get it. No matter what she does, jerks me off, lets me **** her boobs, or just give me a great blow job, she can't make me orgasm! What am I doing wrong? She's completely hot, she's one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen, but she can't seem to make me orgasm. I have to jerk myself off. And I can't get her to either. What the freak?! This really sucks, if anyone can help, please. I'm 17, she's 16. Thank you.

[MVPlaya]

Oral just doesn't do it for you, it doesn't do it for me either. **** em the old fashioned way. Its more interactive anyway.

[Carlos The Elf]

I dunno, though. I really love oral, and I've always thought about it and dreamed about it. I don't get it, I just can't get to that point. Man, this is ghey.

[squirrley]

MAybe you're trying to hard to cum! Just try and relax and enjoy it.
Some guys just dont want to go out that way though, theyd rather romp and the blow.

[Innova]

Yeah, just relax too. If you masterbate alot too...quit! I'm being very serious, quit.

As for me, I love sex..and oral...oh yes baby!

[squirrley]

Innova is right, if you do masturbate-you build up your tolerance, like it's a good thing if you want to go longer while having intercourse, but when it comes to getting off while receiving oral yea it takes a long time.

I love oral sex, thats where someone shines!!
Let her take you like she's sucking on the tootsie pop, she needs to know how many licks it takes to get to the center!

[sfalexi]

Oral doesn't do it to me either. But it does still feel good! So if it don't work, try something else.

Alexi

[Zekk_T_Strife]

As in the concensus in here, I don't dig oral either. I just don't feel it all too well so I never get off on it. I always think the next time is gonna be better then it sucks and I'm disappointed. {sigh}

[Carlos The Elf]

Yeah, I do masturbate about once or twice a day. I should definately quit that shit. Maybe once a week or something. I thought that might have been it. I love oral, I just wish I could orgasm. I will try to relax and enjoy it though. Thanks a lot guys.

[squirrley]

WHAT THE HELL HAVE I BEEN READING? Ok, apparently you guys dont get good oral? I'm sorry, this is the first time I have ever heard of a guy not being into oral and not being able to get off.
You guys need someone who knows what theyre doing.
Oh wait, it comes with experience...sorry.

Dude cut back on the mb! you'll see you'll enjoy the oral more...

[Innova]

Shit...I loved oral, and giving it

[beautifuldesire]

in my opinion, it probably was a fluke the first couple of times that you couldnt come..

after that, you get nervous every time because you are worried that you wont be able to come. try popping a zanax.. lol

no.. just relax and enjoy yourself! you're not even doing the work..

[Zekk_T_Strife]

I'm actually really tired of hearing girls tell me "I'm really good at oral". They never are. I'm ALWAYS disappointed. I just don't like oral. I know why they think they're so good too, because guys have told them they are. News flash to them, GUYS LIE. You'd think that would be obvious. I mean I'm willing to give anyone a chance but as soon as I realize it's just as bad as it always was I'll make them stop because its boring.

[sfalexi]

Great point Zekk. I'll be damned before I tell a girl that she sucks at giving oral. It's mean, and pretty much an almost guaranteed mood-killer. However I am always honest and never lie. So the worst I'll do is skirt around an issue.

Last I was asked how I liked oral by the girl performing it, I responded "It feels really good. But I don't think it's gonna do it for me. We'll have to try something else." It did feel good, but she knows that it won't get me to THAT point. And so we did other things.

Alexi

[squirrley]

I agree with you guys, telling a girl she sucks (no pun intended) is not good for the ego, but you should tell her what you like, hey try this, or I really like it when you do this...another form of communication!

If they're using their teeth-ouch
if they dont change out-boring
if they dont use their hands-boring
if they dont massage your balls-boring

tell your girls what it is you like!!!!!!!!
bet you'll find a difference!