Same Issue, New Poster

[anachronistic]

it's going to be a while before you get better. i think you might be over it in about a month if your life is going pretty good, hence grad school, work is fun, find a few friends to hang with

[Ath]

...my best friend for a decade.

If I could turn it off right now.. I would.

[anachronistic]

what about your best friend? you haven't seen him?

i mean make new friends. or i spose you can call up your best friend, haha

[anachronistic]

also, if you play diablo ii, i used to be addicted to that, but it's fun to play every once and a while. if you got it, let me know what your username is. i like to play with people who like to have conversations. and aren't all like "nneed trang nonladder" in every chat room.

[Ath]

I don't think she wants to hear from me right now.. lol

On the bright side.. this is cheering me up

[Ath]

I had a Diablo II account looong ago. I miss it sometimes

[Gribble]

I think she was his best friend, Lilwing. Well, life has a way of working out in the end. Some day, perhaps years down the road, you'll realize that this event has (hopefully) changed you for the better. Little comfort today, I know, but I don't have anything else to offer.

Who knows, maybe she'll notice the changes in you and come around. Don't give up hope.

[anachronistic]

yea, next time i play i'll have to make a new account. all my characters were up to level 80 something. i like necromancers a lot.

and i didn't know you meant she was your best friend. in that case, just so you know, i broke up with a girl a month ago (it was 3 years long) and she was my best friend for a while, too.

[Ath]

Gribble.. I'll always have hope. And you've already offered what I needed by simply reading my posts. That goes for Lilwing and the others as well

[anachronistic]

well we can be your friends too

i've been here for two years (despite what the joindate says)

[Ath]

Thats great

There's some really good people here... as I stated in the OP, I never even knew this place existed. Expect me here a lot more often for better or worse.. lol

[Ath]

I've done a lot of thinking since last night. I've never had trust issues before, but the fact that I don't know if she slept with this other guy is driving me insane. She says she did, she says she didn't. I really do love her, but I don't know if I can be with someone who cheated on me. I literally vomited just from the thought of it.

I know the guy she may have cheated on me with. I have his cell-phone number. I don't think she can be honest due to not wanting to hurt me, but I have to know... even if it hurts.

Does anyone think its a good or bad idea to call this guy and ask him man to man, if he slept with her?

[Gribble]

I'm almost certain that she did. When a person flipflops I always assume the worst and I'm always right. Do you really want to talk to this guy? Do you think it's going to help? I think it'll make things worse, but I guess if you can't be certain about what happened at least you might get closure.

[Gigabitch]

I think it's always best to know the truth. Do you think you would get the truth from him?

[Ath]

I don't know.. but I have to try. Either way, she has feelings for someone other than me. So it really doesnt matter. I truly want her to be happy. But I never lied once.. in the 10 years I've been with her (4 officially), and I want the truth, even if only for Closure sake. Is it normal to feel like an empty shell, like the body just keeps moving on its own?