Well, I have been dating this girl on and off for about 7 years now...yeah, i know a long time, but there have been some long breaks in there. Before now, neither one of us has wanted to go further because we are both fairly young, but now all she wants and talks about is getting married. I still do not want to, but she is one of the best friends I have ever had and I don't want to lose that, but I still don't want to get married. Any advice?