what not to do ..that is the question

[LostNotFound]

so i have a few questions about general sex and 1st time

who buys the protection?
what to expect?
if he 'blows his load' should he stop?
how bad does it hurt for the girl?

thats all for now..

[vashti]

You BOTH should have protection - condoms for disease control, and another form for birth control. YOu can split the cost or each can pay for one thing.

Expect the first time to suck.

Good lovers ensure their partners are also satisfied. Keep in mind that the majority of females do not orgasm from vaginal sex alone.

How much pain a girl experiences the first time depends on how thick her hymen is and whether or not it is intact. The first time for me was very uncomfortable, but not enough to cry. Expect blood.

[LostNotFound]

how much blood? enough to et the sanatroy towels out for?

[vashti]

how much blood? enough to et the sanatroy towels out for?

What are "sanatroy towels"?

Anyway, the amount of blood can vary from none to a lot. Have some dark-colored towels nearby, and don't do it on anything light-colored.

Also, please tell me you aren't 11.

[Converse]

Sanatory towels are pads for your period that you put in your panties.

[vashti]

You mean "sanitary napkins"? Damn, you Brits are funny.

[Converse]

Lol napkins are associated with food now that's just wrong haha!

[anachronistic]

so i have a few questions about general sex and 1st time

who buys the protection?
what to expect?
if he 'blows his load' should he stop?
how bad does it hurt for the girl?

thats all for now..

pull the penis out just before he ejaculates, even if he is wearing a condom, and you are using birth control.. that is ofcourse unless you want to have a baby.

the bleeding depends on the hymen. do it in a place where there is no carpet (tiled surface similar to a bathroom) and have towels nearby.

you can decide who buys the protection.

don't expect it to feel a certain way, just know that it may hurt the first few times, because the hymen will break, and you'll be sore.

if he comes too fast (if at all) have him give you oral sex, for chrissakes. you'll probably want to get it done and over with if it's your first time and you're the girl though.

[vashti]

You want their first sexual experience to be on a bathroom floor? :

The more I think about it, the more I think that HE should pay for birth control, at least until he learns how to do it properly.

[misombra]

don't do it.

[Only-virgins]

This bitch sounds completely not ready. Tell us what you are going to name the little kiddo your parents are going to have take care of soon?

[LostNotFound]

^^^^^^^^

this is coming from a 24 year old wait the only 24 year old virgin?
pur-lease... i never said i'm having sex. i had questions about it...not that you could answer them.
So you can drop that smile and happy feeling you had after your post and take a walk into the real world.... bitch

[LostNotFound]

thanks for the rest of the advice. not to keen on the bathroom floor thingy

[anachronistic]

on second thought, bathroom doesn't sound like a nice place to lose it either.

[Tiay]

I didn't bleed because I tore my hymen horseback riding, which didn't hurt and was very little blood. I'd say just put down some towels on the bed though, just in case.

also, I think I probably would've given up on penetration if it had just been me and a dildo. I'd have poked once and figured; "ow... oh well, guess that wont work. nevermind then. "
My point is, don't expect it to just slide in effortlessly.