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    Heheheh. I loved Married with Children. You'll note, though, that Al had a soft spot. In the end, he loved his family. He wouldn't even cheat when the opportunity came by.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    Heheheh. I loved Married with Children. You'll note, though, that Al had a soft spot. In the end, he loved his family. He wouldn't even cheat when the opportunity came by.
    of course, but he was bitter as **** about it lol.
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    Can't argue there. Ha.

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    A variety of reasons. Relationships have changed. Maybe he has an idea of what kind of a relationship with a woman would be palatable to him and anything other than than would not be to his choosing. I appreciate that. I would like a more traditional relationship with an intellectually stimulating spouse. I'm not going to "make" a woman into that type of person--either I meet her or I don't. Being alone is acceptable to me because I can take care of myself entirely and have made a nice home for myself (right down to the starched and ironed pillowcases). Taking on a spouse who would scoff at my approach to life or fight me into changing my basic values is not worth it. Maybe your friend has the same view.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    I understand that but some shows show some truth, this show had a good point to make about a married life and it was true.
    OV what makes you think that all marriages are like that? Because I know a couple of marriages that are totally different that the "marriage" in that show. Plus that show is way out dated when it comes to social issues anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Well, let's face it: lots of women can be a giant pain in the ass. If he didn't want children, there was no real reason to get married, was there? It's not like he can't get sex without a wedding ring anymore.

    How old are you?
    To answer your question. I am 32. Neither does he want marriage nor any kind of relationship. He wants to be my friend.

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    Not even sex? Maybe he is impotent. I'd forget about him if I were you. Don't waste your time.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starss View Post
    To answer your question. I am 32. Neither does he want marriage nor any kind of relationship. He wants to be my friend.
    Uh more like a friends with benefits.

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    Why is it if a guy doesn't want sex he must be impotent? And why is it a waste of time to have a friendship with a man?

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    It seems that he pretty much wants to keep the friendship with me.

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    Well, I for one think that's a good thing. Assuming you aren't head over heels for this guy, of course.

    Sounds to me he likes you enough to put aside lust and physical attraction for the sake of preserving a platonic relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Not even sex? Maybe he is impotent. I'd forget about him if I were you. Don't waste your time.
    Impotent? Not sure...lol...
    Last edited by Starss; 08-05-07 at 01:38 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    Well, I for one think that's a good thing. Assuming you aren't head over heels for this guy, of course.

    Sounds to me he likes you enough to put aside lust and physical attraction for the sake of preserving a platonic relationship.
    Oh gribble, that sheds some light on the point!

    Maybe you are right.
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    Perhaps he simply isn't lonely... Loneliness is inner turmoil, while Solitude is inner peace. Not sure where I read that.. and I may have posted it before.. lol

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    you know thats ****ed up cuz im a guy and i feel a lot happier with 1 girl then being promiscuous with many but I guess like there are sluty women there are guys who dont want just one girl i dunno i dont get it and im a guy maybe im acually a girl?? wtf prolly cuz to stay with 1 person u actually have to work at it and we live in an instant gratification society!

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