Ok guys, Ive met this guy at a club about a month ago and I actually went home w/ him that nightMy friends were shocked b/c im known as the good girl of our group.. but idc i actually enjoyed myself it was a great experience... Well i ended up stayin the whole weekend w/ him 3 amazin days I met all his friends (great guys) and he asked me to join him where ever he went ex..BBQs saunas, parties. The whole time we couldnt keep our hands of each other (kissin huggin etc..
) So the followin monday i finally went home. He told me to call him later that day... but i didnt contact him til thursday then later that night he txt me and asked if i wanted to see him... it was 2 am I jumped at the chance and we spontanously decided to take a 3 hour drive to a casino the ride there was great...yet dangerous ever try makin out w/ someone while drivn teehee scary but yet a turn on.. ne who we got to our destination and i felt exhausted it was about28 hours of not sleeping... and when i dont get an efficient amount of sleep im a cranky chic
He'd wink at me w/ his sexy smile and id stare at him w/ an Im gonna kill u look...
I dont know why i couldnt stop actin like that but it didnt seem to phase him well 6 hours later he took me home but we stopped by his appt
Should i keep persuing him?? When we were together hed make me feel like i was the only girl in the room ive never had a guy treat tme so well...
Do u think i did something wrong to make him dislike me?
Id still really love to see him (arghhh i know i shouldnt)
Should i bother calling him? Please tell me of ur opinions/advice even if its harsh thanx guys <3
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11-05-07, 11:32 PM #1
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22 female here need advice from guys on new guy im ummm havin intimate relations w/:)
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12-05-07, 12:05 AM #2
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Meh, I would be turned off from wanting a relationship do to your obvious way of **** anybody you first meet habit. Is this the same stupid Russian accent dude story thing?
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12-05-07, 01:12 AM #3
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if a girl slept with me so soon, I would probably only talk to her her when I want sex too.
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12-05-07, 03:30 AM #4
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lol i knew someone would say that... no ive never done that b4 but thats fine think what u want... like i said i did enjoy the weekend w/ him but i know i should have waited to sleep w/ him. but thats life u live and learn
i still apreciate ur comment (very negative slightly mean, but thats what i wanted) so thanx
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12-05-07, 03:36 AM #5
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ye ur right just like the sayin goes dont purchase the cow if u get the milk for free.. i shouldnt of tried to persue a relationship w/ him but hey im young ... im allowed to do some stupid things in my life thats how we all grow and mature as human beings
thanx for the comment
peace
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12-05-07, 03:47 AM #6
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We grow and mature in life by doing mistakes that we are aware that we are doing?
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12-05-07, 03:51 AM #7
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if you're using your age as an excuse to engage in reckless behavior, then you have a lot of maturing left. I could understand if maybe you are 14 yrs old. Your parents must be so proud of you. <<rolls eyes>>
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In addition to sleeping with him too soon, you were also cranky on your second date, stopped having sex right in the middle (grrr!!!!) and now you are laying down some expectations for your relationship prematurely. Honesly, I don't see how you did anything right with this guy. Sorry to be blunt.
Ah, well... live and learn.Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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First mistake in my honest opinion...sex on first date. Don't want to judge you...but guys like sex on first dates but....gives them a bad impression...makes them wonder about you etc.
Second mistake...running to see him when he calls....he's now got too much control over you and gets quickly uninterested....my opinion.For a complete archive of all the relationship advice I have ever given, visit: [URL="http://www.thelovecounsellor.com/"]TheLoveCounsellor.com[/URL].
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Is your actual name Anabel Lektor or are you making a play on Hannibal Lecter? Cuz if it really is Anabel Lektor that's really cool.
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17-05-07, 08:16 AM #11
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Do NOT initiate contact again.
Best you can do is wait and hope he really HAS been too busy.
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