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    have you ever been Dumped...

    and if so how did it feel.i once had this pretty girl ask me out but i said no because i already had to girls at the time didn't see the need for another one lol .2 weeks later i ran into her at the gym we worked out together ,and talk for about 3 hours. so after seeing her play tennis i thought about asking her out and i did and she said no.

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    Yeah, being dumped can be one of the worst feelings in the world, depending on your feelings towards the person, your experience, your personality etc...

    But what you describe isn't so much of a dumping, more a rejection before you even start. Guess that can still knock you a little, but lets face it at the time you had 2 other girls going out with you at the same time??? Count yourself lucky for being able to pull that off I would.

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    ^ Yup. Gaddes you were rejected, not dumped.
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    I got played once. I think that's worse than being dumped, but I'm not sure.

    It was incredibly humiliating and made me feel worthless.
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    my first girlfriend dumped me because i stroked her leg on the first date and i guess that intimidated her or something.

    every girl after that i have dumped because they all lied/cheated to me. ****ing amerika.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    I got played once. I think that's worse than being dumped, but I'm not sure.

    It was incredibly humiliating and made me feel worthless.
    i feel for ya. just about every relationship i've been in i got played bigtime.

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    I've been dumped AND played......hurt like hell at the time, but I can tell you for sure that it made me one helluva stronger person in the end.

    Now I'm not to be messed with!
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilwing View Post
    i feel for ya. just about every relationship i've been in i got played bigtime.
    The guy who did it is a radio DJ here in Santa Fe. Occasionally, I hear his voice on the radio and it makes me feel really sad. I'm not sure if you can ever truly get over being treated badly, not completely.

    Still can't figure out what motivates such things. He chased me like a dog after a rabbit for six months, and as soon as he got what he wanted, vanished like a puff of smoke.
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    damn giga... that would make me sad too

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer View Post
    I've been dumped AND played......hurt like hell at the time, but I can tell you for sure that it made me one helluva stronger person in the end.
    Your ex was SUCH an idiot.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Your ex was SUCH an idiot.
    so was d.j. ****ass.

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    Nope strangely enough, i have always done the dumping, was a bit cruel in the past and would do it just for fun, nowadays i just seem to be real picky personality wise, i seem to find little flaws within a week or two and convince myself that they are beneath me, so always dump them straight away


    Giga: some guys are just like that - they have no intention of having a realtionship, just want a new pussy to ****, and sadly females these days seem so quick to give it up, thats its getting easier and easier to play girls, at least in your case it took months, most of my mates who are very good at what they do need a maximum of 20 mins - and at least you learnt your ****ing lesson, but some of these bitches today just dont get it

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    i thought since this was the intimate forum, the title was gonna be continued ...

    i thought it was going to be "have you ever been Dumped ... on?"

    gaddes ... u weird me out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tooxshort View Post
    i thought since this was the intimate forum, the title was gonna be continued ...

    i thought it was going to be "have you ever been Dumped ... on?"

    gaddes ... u weird me out.
    lolololololololollololoololollollol


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    I've never been dumped. I seem to attract the guys that want to stick around. I had a cheating boyfriend, though... even he wanted to stay together.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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