Your on the first date and everthings going great until

[gaddes]

he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person?

[vashti]

Are you collecting data for a book?

[gaddes]

Are you collecting data for a book?

maybe................................

[Gribble]

We would have a lovely evening together. After which if she wanted to be my friend that would be fine. But I'd be pursuing other, more willing game.

[NeoSeminole]

f*ck no, I'm not waiting until marriage to have sex. I'll find another girl.

[Only-virgins]

he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person?

I don't ever want to get married, so you tell me...would it be a problem for me?

[LostNotFound]

he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person?

yes. yes. yes

[Ath]

I'm not looking for a first date hook-up, but obviously before biting the bullet would be nice.

[bluestrattos]

Maybe that could be a test... just to know the real intentions of the person. Even if isn't a test, if you're willing to build a solid and true relationship, you must learn that sex is only a small part of the cake.

[Gigabitch]

Maybe that could be a test... just to know the real intentions of the person. Even if isn't a test, if you're willing to build a solid and true relationship, you must learn that sex is only a small part of the cake.

A very, very important small part.

Me, I wouldn't buy that car without a test drive. No way.

[Only-virgins]

I wouldn't buy a car with out a test drive either, I also don't want to be a car that has been test driven either...unless A LOT is taken off on the price.

[lovesjoyajm]

That test-drive/car analogy makes me really angry every time I read it, which is every time this subject is brought up. For some reason, people everywhere seem to think it's hugely apt, but seriously, in what other context can you compare people to cars?

I mean, in that context, shouldn't you get to "test-drive" a kid before you decide you want to keep it?

[Converse]

Most young people don't take relationships serriously at first hence not wanting to wait for marriage and the best part...wanting to get laid! **** waiting for marriage, I don't wanna get married.

I wouldn't buy a car without a test drive either.

[Gigabitch]

I mean, in that context, shouldn't you get to "test-drive" a kid before you decide you want to keep it?

No, that's more like building your own custom car from the ground up.

[LoveTwist]

he/she says they won't have sex anymore until they are married.would this be a problem for you?Could you really put off having sex for 3 or 4 years just for this person?

If you're asking whether you should put off having sex with someone until marriage...
Then how the **** would I know... that's your personal choice. Only you know if you love some one enough or are able to g without sex tat long and willing to wait for someone. That’s totally up to you. If sex is important in your life and you wouldn’t want to live without it for that long, than obviously you wouldn't wait. If you tried it may even go pair shaped because you might be tempted to cheat. All depends how much you love the person and how much you love sex.

If you're asking me whether I would....
Then I'd have to say yes. For me personally I could probably go the rest of my life without having sex and it wouldn't be a problem. But that’s just me. And I know... I'm probably a majority shareholder in the 'No need for sex' business.