first kiss

[anachronistic]

i also feel like i should hold her hand and cuddle with her before we kiss..

[Gigabitch]

i dunno, i always feel uncomfortable asking to kiss.

Then don't ask her, TELL her. It's a turn-on. Really.

[anachronistic]

Then don't ask her, TELL her. It's a turn-on. Really.

lol i wonder if she would find it a turn-on. she does come from germany, y'know

[lovesjoyajm]

Und was soll das bedeuten, huh?? One time a German guy asked me before he kissed me, and I found it to be really appropriate at the time. It wasn't really a request (puppy expecting a treat, haha Giga), he just wanted to make sure I didn't object first since it was under strange circumstances. Then again, the other two best first kisses I've had (enough adjectives there...?) were either a complete surprise, or at least without any sort of spoken introduction, respectively, and I found them to be even more romantic, so... answer = I dunno

[anachronistic]

hey lovesjoyajm, es koennte meinen Wuensch zerstoeren, ja?

ich will ihr fragen nicht weil es ist lieblich mehr wenn nicht gefragt.

what is a definite must before making the attempt? ie holding hands.

[Miss hotty]

i dunno, i always feel uncomfortable asking to kiss.

Don't ask just do just a peck at first and if they don't pull away then you go in for more thats what i do when it comes to lads

[anachronistic]

got another date tonight which could be with one of my friends and his girlfriend.

this is the last time i will see her before she goes back to germany

[Miss hotty]

What you going to do

[misombra]

lol i wonder if she would find it a turn-on. she does come from germany, y'know

i'm 100% sure she would.

[anachronistic]

What you going to do

probably go to the theater

[anachronistic]

well i arrived at her house to pick her up. i bought her a little plastic frog as a souvenir back to germany. don't ask.

we went to pirates of the carribean 3. we were about 30 minutes late arriving. i was confused throughout the entire movie because i didn't know what the hell was going on. not only that, but i was trying to make a move the entire time. she wouldn't let me hold her hand or anything. tough.

so after the movie i took her out to a friend's house where there was a bonfire. that was fun, she got to meet some of my friends, and it was a good social thing. i took her back at her house at 23:00. she asked me for my address and email address and all that so she could keep in touch when she goes back to germany.

she wants me to come up and see her off on monday at the airplane, as she does some of her other friends... i'm not all sure that i should. i would like to continue being friends, but it's a 60 mile drive, which is a half a tank of gas, practically.

[GratefulOne]

The key is getting it in there (the kiss) before things go all platonic on you (i.e. the 'friend' zone)...

[naoki322]

hmm cant tell you. it just happens as cliche as it sounds. i'll never forget mine~ it really actually just happened. no talking or anything

[Tiay]

is she gone already? well in case she isn't- you can't really afford to wait for the exact right moment. just kiss her, so that she wont forget you!

I actually kinda miss the tons of making out I had with my bf before we started doing more than kissing... hmm..

[vashti]

I actually kinda miss the tons of making out I had with my bf before we started doing more than kissing... hmm..

Anticipation is so much more of a turn-on than actual sex. Sex is great, but I think the pre-sex stage is vastly underrated.