Girls, a few questions. I gonna have sex..

[JamesBrimble]

Hey, my girlfriend told me she's ready for sex, so we've organised to have it at her friends sweet sixteenth party, because thats when her and her boyfriend will be having it aswell.

I've never had sex before, so it's gonna quite an adventure
I just wanted to ask a few things to help me make it better for her and myself. And also so im not as scared or anything.

First, i was thinking about her size, shes a VERY slim girl, im talkin 112lb, sexy, looks like she'd snap if a fat guy rolled on her. I was wondering if she would differ during sex to someone with more body mass, like an average girl. Would she feel more pain, more pleasure, would she reach orgasm faster, etc..

Secondly, i was wondering about how i should start it, we're all planning to have seperate tents in a field on the 1st of July, have a barbeque then later, slowy drift off into the tents. I dont want to get into the tent and start ripping her clothes off like some incredible hulk-like-rapist. I want to smoothly go into it after some kissing etc. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to play with her downstairs area maybe add some tongue, then work my way up her body. And get into the intercourse. Tell me if it's a good idea, please.

Thirdly, i was just wondering what girls think of the guys manhood. I know us guys worry more than we should about what the girl's going to think about it, but i think for me, it's still nice to know. Things like, are you girls fussed about alot of pubic hair, and the size, i think mine's about 5.5"-6.5" from my lower belly to the tip of mah wonger.

And last but not least, as this is quite a personal thing. Im circumsized, but my girlfriend doesn't know. And the reason that havent told her, is because about 85% of guys in my area arent circumsized, and so everyone kind of tents to make slide remarks about circumsized penis'. So the girls in my area have grown to accept that un-circumsized ones are normal, and that a circumsized penis would be un normal. But there's another thing on my mind asking that because im guessing girl arent always lookin at dicks, and a majority of dicks they see are in porno's where pretty much every cock is cut. So, will she be bothered that i have a circumsized penis when she might not be expecting one?

Thank you so much for your advice and help. If You can give me any, it would make me less stressed during, and make it nicer for me and her for the first time.

Thanks again

[vashti]

How old are you?

[vashti]

Actually, it doesn't matter how old you are, although I suspect you are also around 16.

Anyway, you don't sound anywhere NEAR ready for sex. Your girlfriend wants to have sex because HER FRIEND is going to? That is a dumber-than-average reason to do this.

And you say she only weighs 8 lbs (which I suspect is really more like 80 lbs.) which means her body isn't even done growing yet. Just relax and wait. Your pecker won't shrivel and fall off if you don't use it right now.

[JamesBrimble]

16, why do you ask?

[JamesBrimble]

What the hell? im not even bothered about what you said, but you could have atleast said it without being a total prick.

[vashti]

Sorry, sweetie. Sometimes the truth hurts. Anyway, I wasn't being a *total* prick... For you, I have revealved only 50% of my prick capacity.

Edit - nice job editing her weight, but 112 pounds doesn't even have an 8 in it, so I don't believe you.

[LordOfTehVirgin]

He is gonna do it regardless of what you say probably.... would be better to give him advice that would help, just my thoughts.

[vashti]

Yes, I guess we could always use another "Oh my god, my girlfriend is pregnant" thread...

[Ath]

All kids are idiots.. I was one too.. just got lucky.

Here's the advice - You're not ready, She's not ready - Don't argue, I know.

Tons of ways to have fun without the risk.. and planning it almost NEVER works out the way you intended.

[DoesntMatter]

Man, that sounds like a lot of effort and planning if all you really wanna do is get ****ed. No?

[Gribble]

What the hell? im not even bothered about what you said, but you could have atleast said it without being a total prick.

Oh my god. You called VASHTI a prick? HAHAH!!! You're just gonna looooove this forum, bud. I guarantee.

[Junket]

Oh my god. You called VASHTI a prick? HAHAH!!! You're just gonna looooove this forum, bud. I guarantee.

I can guarantee this one won't stick around long enough to find out.

[NeoSeminole]

Ath says:

"All kids are idiots"

that is so untrue. Some of us actually try to live our lives without having regrets.

[Gigabitch]

It seems to me that you're worrying about the wrong things.

First of all, you should be playing with each other a lot before you actually have sex. She should be well-aquainted with your penis before you go putting it in her vagina. You are not going to have a clue if you don't do a little recon beforehand.

Secondly, you should be really concerned about contraception. This is 100% your responsibility and 100% her responsibility. For God's sake, worry about that.

Finally, i feel very strongly that you should be completely alone when you have sex for the first time, not in some tent next to her best friend. Where's the romance? Sheesh.