Cheating girlfriend

[mr_cc]

Hi all,

Just to set the scene, Im a 23 year old guy, and ive been seeing my girlfriend for 4 years.

About a year ago, she had a fling with a guy from her university course. I found out about a month after it happened, and I was devestated, but I took her back.

It took a while, but I forgave her for cheating, and it was really good for a while.

Now I have been told that she was kissing another guy at a club last night.

Im totally still in love with her, and my natural reaction is to pretend nothing happened and just get on with it.

But I dont want to be walked all over like this. And with her track record, our future doesnt look too good.

So what do I do? Is it time to dump her . Or is it possible for me to get her to change her ways, stay with her and come out of this with some dignity?

What do you think?

Mr c.

[squirrley]

Leave her. Didnt it hurt bad enough the first time? Why would you subject yourself to that even loving her.

You are being walked on, and her knowing you took her back the first time, she'll continue to do it. You cant change her. I'd let her know how you feel and that you cant do this anymore. Tell her you love her and all but its not fair to you and deserve way better than that!!

[Necrid]

leave her NOW!!

dump her((note: this is my evil side)) make her cry if possible

you don't need that in your life

[sfalexi]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Find someone else. If you don't, it'll just happen again. And again. And she'll just keep trying to do it behind your back cause she'll hope that either she'll get away with it, or KNOW that even if she doesn't, you'll take her back.

Alexi

[IceQueen]

Or is it possible for me to get her to change her ways, stay with her and come out of this with some dignity?

Absolutely not. Time to face the music.

[KenThePartyMan]

Send her packing buddy....If you can't, just think about what else she was doing with her mouth before she comes home to kiss you....

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Sorry....

[tooxshort]

I always say "You can't turn a ho into a housewife."

I had a fairly similar situation ...

[earlydecember]

Give her the boot!!!

[Innova]

Yeah man, I know you love her and it hurts..but she will just keep doing it. It will only hurt more if you stay.

[discodeca]

I'd leave her mr cc, "once a cheater always a cheater". Move on with your life, you don't that kind of torture..."there's many fish in the sea".

[Ironliftr3]

Ditch the bitch.

[gmcnxx]

Four years is a long time… Maybe “kissing that other guy” testimony is not true. Confront her with what you know. Give her one more chance with an ultimatum. Go and make her think you are cheating on her (but don’t actually cheat) and see what she does. If she stays then maybe things will work out in the long run. Some girls don’t understand the pain they are causing until they experience the pain themselves. It is not impossible to even take a hooker and turn her into a loving devoted wife / partner. People grow out of bad habits. But it is a long shot. The pragmatic thing is to try a new relationship ASAP.

[earlydecember]

Give her the biggest boot ever, preferably with a steel toe cap!! she'll do it again, and maybe more!

[squirrley]

Hey Irons got the perfect boots for that!

(hmmm...maybe that's why he bought them???)

[Ironliftr3]

Thats why they have steel around the toes. The blood cleans of easily.

Now how to get this hair out.....