I have been reading your posts in this section and am feeling my age. All of you are talking about your first kiss and I'm thinking...how many did I kiss this week? I guess I can give you some hints on how to make the first move because I do it every night. This goes for boys and girls.
For the most part there is the question...Should I do it? The answer is yes. They want to kiss just as bad as you do. But everyone is shy the first time because you don't know what the other person is going to think about you. When I was younger I would come up with some crazy plan on how everything was going to happen.
I'm going to get her a flower, go over her house, walk her to the park, put my arms around her as I tell her how fine she is and then slip her the tongue...and my boys were like hell yeah, that's going to work, go for it.... But here is how it would end up.
The flower would be a mess from me pulling off all the peddles I thought were dead or not good enough for my girl. I would get to her house and her dad would make us watch TV with him in the living room. And the rest of the time I would be trying to come up with Plan B because the good part of Plan A is all screwed up now. So planning everything will get you nothing. You can't make things go your way.
Here are a few tips that might get you to your goal. First tip is just go for it. If she is not ready she will let you know. I'm am saying she because guys always want to kiss girls. Second tip is to talk about it. If it is out in the open then there is only one thing left to do and that is kiss. If your still shy about it write her a note letting her know you want to kiss her. Most girls wont make the first move so its up to you.
If you don't kiss her she might think you don't like her and then kiss your buddy because he went for it. All I am going to say is just go for it. You never know unless you try.
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05-03-04, 07:00 PM #1
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How To Make The First Move!
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sounds like good advice ... I would say go for it too.. hhmmm... interesting
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Hi jane...want to makeout?
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sorry ken.. my man is the only one I'll be making out with ...
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
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" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
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"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir
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06-03-04, 01:24 AM #6
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*coughing*
And thus that is the way the cookie crumbles.
Good day
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Originally posted by jane
sorry ken.. my man is the only one I'll be making out with ...
@#$%
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lmao!
jane you have to stop hurting all these men. damn girl! jk
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why put on this macho thing?
hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao
hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.
i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"
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... i know..
I feel bad... BUT!!
My man .... yum...
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
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"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir
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no i think Ken is looking for some action anywhere!!!
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
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right? damn ken... Florida ladies not feeling you? ...
"Remember always, that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
- - Eleanor Roosevelt
" It's not who we are that holds us back, it's who we think we're not."
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"...to love and lose, is better than not to love at all..." .... Lord, whats his name....
" The world is big... I want to see all of it before it gets dark." -- John Muir
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Yes...I'm a flirt! I love women! but does that make me a bad person? And I was trying to make a point...you never know till you try and now I know you both think I am a looser
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awe, we dont think youre a loser by any means, you're a player!
That doesnt make you a bad person.
You're yound enough to go out and have fun!!!
Live it up man!!!everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
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Exactly. Ken is having a party in his mouth and everyone is coming!! (haha)
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
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