Boyfriend Doesn't buy me gifts

[vashti]

My husband is a good flower-giver. Unfortuantely for him, I am not a great flower-reciever. I mean, I *like* them, but I'd rather spend money on more practical things. I generally only want flowers when we are having dinner parties.

[anachronistic]

what kind girl appreciates drawings and hand-crafted jewelry? i need one of those.

[Kiechi]

what kind girl appreciates drawings and hand-crafted jewelry? i need one of those.

The blind ones.

[LostNotFound]

well when mine buys me gifts there usually so unexpected and expensive i feel embaressd taking them, as i know i won't be able to buy stuff that expensive.

i'm not a teddy bear person. why would you buy me teddy bears? i'm 19 and they have no use!!

flowers not really unless he's trying to be romantic with them.

i prefer things i'm actually gona want, use and need even if that means it's a pen.

[Only-virgins]

You know what's funny? Women are forever going on about how men can't communicate. And yet when they want something they never come right out and say it. They sulk and get bitchy. If the guy asks what's wrong the girl says something stupid like, "If you don't know, I'm not telling you!" And then they go and screw some other dude and leave. WTF!?

I know!!! WTF!!!

well when mine buys me gifts there usually so unexpected and expensive i feel embaressd taking them, as i know i won't be able to buy stuff that expensive.

i'm not a teddy bear person. why would you buy me teddy bears? i'm 19 and they have no use!!

flowers not really unless he's trying to be romantic with them.

i prefer things i'm actually gona want, use and need even if that means it's a pen.

Yea, but gift is a gift. Like it or not the person meant well and doesn't deserve a bitter come back at him that it is the wrong gift. Some of you people are acting like little kids

"WHAAAA I DIDN'T WANT THIS WAAAAHHH.....IT IS THE WRONG COLOR! WAHH WAHH WAHH"



enjoy these, they are great!

One more thing to the original thread starter, what was the last gift you got him?

[Gigabitch]

i'm not a teddy bear person. why would you buy me teddy bears? i'm 19 and they have no use!!

Yeah, isn't that creepy? Makes you wonder if they wish you were an eight-year-old. Eeew.

[anachronistic]

The blind ones.

jeeze. i hate women then.

[misombra]

the material life is boring and useless. just a waste in general.

[Illusional]

instead of him taking me out for drinks, I'd rather he spend the $15 on some flowers.

is that such a f*cken crime?????

he makes me feel that way!

haha gimme the 15 bucks and i'll buy a bottle of crown royal and we can "share" it. now wouldn't that be romantic??

raverboy

[dollface82]

well, I saw him walking with a girl and his dog over thw wknd - he was meant to be away for work.

he said it was just a friend, as did she.

yeah right.

[Steve2004]

what kind girl appreciates drawings and hand-crafted jewelry? i need one of those.

not..jewelry so much. but the guy i had a crush on for like..3 years was an artist and every christmas he'd draw me a picture. the drawings were always my favorite gifts.

[anachronistic]

not..jewelry so much. but the guy i had a crush on for like..3 years was an artist and every christmas he'd draw me a picture. the drawings were always my favorite gifts.

alas there is hope for me. what kind of things did he draw for you?

[dollface82]

no wonder he wasn't fussed about buying me things - think he has been cheating the whole time!

[Steve2004]

alas there is hope for me. what kind of things did he draw for you?

he drew me a picture of a rose about two years ago. I have it hanging in my room. And he drew ME, except kinda made me look vampire-ish. It's scary but awesome. i had that next to my bed. annnd he drew me a faerie, cause i love faeries. but yea, i loved all of them. i love that kid. -sighs-

[Gribble]

Considering how little you appreciate the time he spends with you, I can't say as I blame him. Your paranoid nature no doubt contributed to driving him away.