Who am I?

[TheKissPolice]

hi,i have been thinking a lot lately,and i have been asking myself the question,who am i?i am having a confusion about my personality coz as a child,i have been influenced by a lot of people,growing up i was told to act appropriately towards certain situations.as i am about to reach the age of 25,i keep questioning if my point of view with regards to conduct,morality,decision making and rationalization are just mere reflections of the people who raised me and inspired me through the years.is this me?or them thinking and taking control of my life?thank you

[Gigabitch]

You are who you are, and you were born that person. Everything else is just a filter, coloring the way you're perceived, but it isn't really you.

[misombra]

You are who you are, and you were born that person. Everything else is just a filter, coloring the way you're perceived, but it isn't really you.

wow, that was awesome.

i wish i could give you rep points but that stupid limit thing. it needs to be changed.

giga, have i told you lately that you're a sexybitch?

[Gigabitch]

NO, and I've been holding my breath waiting for you to do it. What took you so long?

Hey, do you want to go see those annoying Red Elvises on the 3rd or what?

[misombra]

you are not only a sexybitch, but you are a gigasexybYtch. that's like, twice as sexy.

anyways, where's the show?

[Gigabitch]

SF Brewing company- up here. Small venue, but fun. Good beer.

[anachronistic]

asking us who you are is not helping your situation.

[misombra]

SF Brewing company- up here. Small venue, but fun. Good beer.

hmmmm, perhaps we will. perhaps we will...

[Changnian Lu]

TheKissPolice, What is your problem? Are you crossed in love? or your work is not satisfactory?

[Illusional]

just break loose and party hard one day. do all the things that you were told not to and see if you like it. you're 25 already, it's time that you explore the world.

raverboy

[DoesntMatter]

Sounds like you are having an identity crisis

The truth of the matter is that people are FAR too complicated to be labeled any one way. In high school, which I thankfully just graduated from, it seemed like everybody was having a hard time trying to figure themselves out. Just read any person's Myspace page.

People try too hard to identify themselves with groups sometimes. Or what people do even more is try coming up with adjectives to describe themselves. This does not work because people change, we are dynamic. Expect yourself to change, including morals, ethics, likes, dislikes, etc. Change is healthy, IMO.

Your surroundings (such as parents) will indeed influence you. Once you start discovering things for yourself, however, expect your views to change. Maybe just a little, or maybe a complete change. It is highly unlikely that your opinion will remain constant after looking at "the world" first-hand.

Again IMO, a good parent will not shelter their kids. It's bad to live in a bubble, very bad indeed. And don't expect to be just like your parents. I'm literally the complete opposite of my mom. However, we both get along wonderfully.

[Only-virgins]

You are someone new everyday.

[Illusional]

this reminds me of the movie "identity" where 10 different people exist inside on person's mind and they start to kill each other one by one.

raverboy

[TheKissPolice]

TheKissPolice, What is your problem? Are you crossed in love? or your work is not satisfactory?

not really,i just have a lot of time in my hands.

[TheKissPolice]

good points,thanks for your inputs everybody,and illusional i might check that movie out.