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    He's 29. And well yes we go out. But I never call him my boyfriend and he never calls me his girlfriend and we also dont tell anybody about us so. Its kindda secret. But I do love him, at least I think I do.

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    he is too old for you. find someone your own age.
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    Everyone tells me the same. I do not in any way feel attracted to guys my age. Its ok as friends but I see them and treat them like I would my brother.
    And I love him, I want HIM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 19ntgf View Post
    He's 29. And well yes we go out. But I never call him my boyfriend and he never calls me his girlfriend and we also dont tell anybody about us so. Its kindda secret. But I do love him, at least I think I do.
    The reason it's a secret is because he is ashamed of your age. His peers would laugh at him if they knew he was involved with a teenager.

    And yeah - Giga is right - if you aren't sure, it's not love, and that is what you said in your original post.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    But I don't want to stop seeing him. What is it I feel then If I don't love him?

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    Maybe you are just enjoying the attention, especially since this is the first guy you've been involved with. There isn't anything wrong with enjoying attention... everyone does. I would be concerned about being hidden all the time, though.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    He doesn't hide me. He talks about me with his friends but i dont talk about him. My friends wouldn't aprove. And my mother would just flip out. So... I think its best to leave things a bit secret.
    Could it be that I loved him once before but now I don't anymore?
    Is that possible?
    Sometimes I get the feeling love's just an illusion.
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    might be...

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    where is your father?
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