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    I let my bf touch me all over

    Me and my bf are 18 years old and we are preparing for our final exam b4 entrance to university. My bf is a pretty mature guy, trying to balance his studies, outside activities...and me. We've been physically intimate, but never had sex. Everytime we are both alone, he cannot resist giving me a hug and a kiss. Once, he touched my boobs, then he said he became uncomfortable, because it was so dangerously close and it might lead to sex (We believe in sex within marriage only). But I didnt want him to stop. A week later, he tried to avoid touching, but I told him it was really alright, because I trust him too much. And so, he touched me all over, my boobs, my legs and every part except the private area (which i didn't allow him to touch anyway). After the whole incident, he felt a pang of guilt because of where the relationship is going, and with the final exam in view, he was getting less focused because he's constantly thinking about me. What should I do? Should I continue to see him? Its really so hard not to because we like each other so much.

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    of course you need to keep seeing him. just relax after the exams, but during the tests, dont hang out as often.

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    This all sounds really sweet and it could blossom into something great. You sound like you care about and respect one another. Def focus on your exams, and let further exploration (if you want it) be an after-exams sort of reward.

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    That's cool.

    My girlfriend let me touch her all over too.

    All over.

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    My boyfriend touches me all over, too. We sleep naked next to each other. We're not married.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    My boyfriend touches me all over, too. We sleep naked next to each other. We're not married.

    BLASPHEMY!

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    Save me a seat next to the stage in Hell, won't you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Save me a seat next to the stage in Hell, won't you?
    Sorry, can't.

    I got a one-way to heaven.

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    Well, obviously. Every time you put your hands all over Amy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Well, obviously. Every time you put your hands all over Amy.
    Yeah...it's bad.

    I kept gettin' these boners in class today when I definitely should have been paying attention.

    You'd think after highschool that wouldn't be a problem anymore.

    I guess that's why guys really invented the belt for.

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    Maybe you need to stick a shin guard down your pants.
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    lol the title of this thread is crackin me up.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    lol yea me to it wasn't what i expected to read inside the post =\

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    Quote Originally Posted by celestie_al View Post
    Me and my bf are 18 years old and we are preparing for our final exam b4 entrance to university. My bf is a pretty mature guy, trying to balance his studies, outside activities...and me. We've been physically intimate, but never had sex. Everytime we are both alone, he cannot resist giving me a hug and a kiss. Once, he touched my boobs, then he said he became uncomfortable, because it was so dangerously close and it might lead to sex (We believe in sex within marriage only). But I didnt want him to stop. A week later, he tried to avoid touching, but I told him it was really alright, because I trust him too much. And so, he touched me all over, my boobs, my legs and every part except the private area (which i didn't allow him to touch anyway). After the whole incident, he felt a pang of guilt because of where the relationship is going, and with the final exam in view, he was getting less focused because he's constantly thinking about me. What should I do? Should I continue to see him? Its really so hard not to because we like each other so much.
    If you are intent on remaining virgins, you should stop with all the touching. The high school choir teacher also advises that the girls not allow any "laying down kissing".
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    yeah. touching will eventually lead to sex. though, it you two are ok with the idea of just getting each other off manually.. then maybe... nahh, that'd also lead to sex inevitably. You could stick to a really strict "above waist touching only" rule? .. but chances are then you'll be tempted.

    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    My boyfriend touches me all over, too. We sleep naked next to each other. We're not married.
    we should start a club, giga.

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