hi, im just new here... i was just browsing the net and trying to find something that would ease the pain in my heart... then i found this place...
im 27 yrs old, currently in a relationship of almost 4 yrs and that is shaky right now...
i am a born again christian and my boyfriend is not...
as of this moment, i know that my boyfriend is having a moment of pleasure with someone else...
i love him but i just can't leave him...
yes, i know you will think im stupid... maybe i am...
im learning to let go of this feeling, i just need time...
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04-08-07, 07:15 AM #1
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hi...
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04-08-07, 08:55 AM #2
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Welcome to the forum. I'm sorry to hear about that.
Some people are like slinkies... they don't really have a purpose, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.
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04-08-07, 08:58 AM #3
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Yikes - is that a sexual moment of pleasure, or just a few laughs?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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04-08-07, 09:24 AM #4
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Welcum...dump him.
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04-08-07, 04:39 PM #5
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Ugh, guys can be hateful sometimes. *gets myself ready for some male ranting to come*
I'm sorry to hear that. ;/ Well, in the mean time...would you want a slice of cake? I still have a few slices left from my party yesterday.
"Life is a bitch, and then YOU die." -my neighbor
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05-08-07, 04:09 AM #6
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hrmm... wow there's so much sympathy in here that it makes me sick.
i for one don't feel sorry for people who stay in a relationship when they know that it's hurting them. i don't mean to pick on the author, but when you really think about it, would you keep cutting yourself just for pleasure?? suck it up and let go, it's not as hard as you think.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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05-08-07, 06:23 AM #7
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I'm one of those people.
Originally Posted by Illusional
No matter how miserable I am, I end up staying in relationships (and sometimes going back to them). I HAVE to sympathize. I know how hard that it is. That's why I say I am loyal to a fault. 
Some people are like slinkies... they don't really have a purpose, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.
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05-08-07, 07:35 AM #8
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I don't know that I would call that "loyalty" so much as I would call it "fear of being alone".
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Yeah...you make the wrong choices, you suffer the consequences.
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06-08-07, 02:02 AM #10
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vash... that's exactly what i was thinking.. where's my rep point button??
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
