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    can you please tell me what you think is going on

    Theres this guy i know. we flirt and talk alot of the time. He taps me and then acts as if it wasn't him, but sometimes he'll do something to me and then he'll stand there and smile at me. And i'll smile at him. Kinda like he wants my attention. Do guys only do this to women they like?

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    Hm, obviously he wants your attention. I've been around with guys like that...it gets annoying after sometime. Well, depends upon what they do to get your attention. But yeah...

    Well, if I were you...I would not assume since it's too early for that. Lol. I'd prolly just ride along first, and see what happens next. He's prolly just testing if you'd respond to his "flirting" or however you want to call that. But that's just my opinion.
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    ugh. hate boys like this. I'm a big fan of them coming right out and saying they might be interested in me. But..poking me and pretending it was someone else? i feel like i'm in elementary school again. It sounds like he's interested in you..but also that he's immature.

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    Haha so true. That's what makes it so annoying. Makes me want to retaliate, poke his eyes and pretend it's not me.
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    Maybe bobo IS in elementary.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bobo View Post
    Theres this guy i know. we flirt and talk alot of the time. He taps me and then acts as if it wasn't him, but sometimes he'll do something to me and then he'll stand there and smile at me. And i'll smile at him. Kinda like he wants my attention. Do guys only do this to women they like?
    Wait...are you sure he's not mute?
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    Are you sure its a he?
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    Mute...uh, nevermind. You said you flirt and TALK alot of the time. Lol, the tapping and you two smiling at each other is just weird though. Gah, how old are you two?
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    It's really funny because, when I was 15, there was a guy who did that to me... and I'd do that to him. 2 years later we started talking again, and it turned out he had had a crush on me and was subtly letting me know.
    Some people are like slinkies... they don't really have a purpose, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.

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    uhhmmm, guys, not wanting to crash the party here, but i doubt bobo's even reading this thread.
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    isn't it obvious? he is shy. he can not say what he is meaning because the shyness gets in the way but he still desiers closeness and all the seemingly silly little games that are played are there to allow him some parody of closeness that is garanteed not to hurt him. the eternal feer of the shy is that someone will confront them and they will have no words to seek refuge behind. sad really because such a thing removes the feer of confrontation. he plays the games for its similatrity for closeness in the safe knollege that if anyone asks him a attacking question he can seeek refuge in the words 'we were just playing'. but he still hopes (because even small hope is better than none) that such silly games can lead to something serious. that the world is a fairy tale, that happy endings do happen to people who arnt bruteish and rash and uncareing. he probably does have some feelings for you, but he is incapable of saying them, this is the nearest his mind may let him.

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    yep i agreed with them

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    Quote Originally Posted by thefallenheart View Post
    isn't it obvious? he is shy. he can not say what he is meaning because the shyness gets in the way but he still desiers closeness and all the seemingly silly little games that are played are there to allow him some parody of closeness that is garanteed not to hurt him. the eternal feer of the shy is that someone will confront them and they will have no words to seek refuge behind. sad really because such a thing removes the feer of confrontation. he plays the games for its similatrity for closeness in the safe knollege that if anyone asks him a attacking question he can seeek refuge in the words 'we were just playing'. but he still hopes (because even small hope is better than none) that such silly games can lead to something serious. that the world is a fairy tale, that happy endings do happen to people who arnt bruteish and rash and uncareing. he probably does have some feelings for you, but he is incapable of saying them, this is the nearest his mind may let him.
    the most depressing thing about that statement is that it pretty well sums me up...dunno whether to feel good or bad?

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