Which is Worse?

[Gigabitch]

I think how you answer this question says a lot about your dating personality. Which of these options would be more unpleasant for you:

[vashti]

I'd prefer: The person you love is sleeping with someone else but wants to be with you.

Now tell me what this means about my dating personality.

[Gigabitch]

I had a theory, and you've already proven it to be wrong. I thought men would care more about the actual, physical event and women would care more about the emotional desire, not caring quite as much about where the guy actually was as much as where his heart was.

[vashti]

How did I disprove it? It looks like I affirmed it.

[Gigabitch]

I suppose I should define "worse".

[vashti]

Oh, shit! I didn't read your original post correctly. I thought you were asking which one I'd *prefer*. Duh!

You were right. Can I change my vote?

[Gigabitch]

I don't know how to do fancy stuff like that. I can barely delete someone else's advertisement links.

[anachronistic]

if the person i loved wanted to be with someone else i would be a broken mess. that is the worse of the two for me.

[Junket]

I had a theory, and you've already proven it to be wrong. I thought men would care more about the actual, physical event and women would care more about the emotional desire, not caring quite as much about where the guy actually was as much as where his heart was.

I read about that too.

I think it's bullshit.

I think it's not really a matter of he or she, as it is humanity.

People want to be wanted and desired, period.

[anachronistic]

i realized that a looooooooong time ago.

i think many women think this way because they're tricked into it.

[misombra]

i picked the first one. i have an intuitive piscean sincerity meter. i know when somebody is thinking of someone else. and it would suck to have sex knowing this. although our desires and love could blind us and we may not know. that would suck even worse.

[Ellynn]

I wouldn't want to be sleeping w/ someone who wants to be with someone else. If I was aware of it, I probably would lose all desire for them so the sex would suck.

But, if someone was sleeping with someone else and wanted to be with me, then there is always a chance they would stop sleeping with the other person and be with me. At least they would WANT to be.

[Only-virgins]

Sweet, I broke the tie by picking the second option. Honestly both options suck and are sufficient enough for me to terminate the relationship...but that all depends on what you mean by "wants to be with someone else"..I wouldn't care if she had some little crush thing on some stupid actor or something...most women do they just don't say shit like that.

[Mathias]

The first one is worse, and it's not even close.

The second one can be remedied. The first one is just hopeless, hurtful and cruel.

[vashti]

I wouldn't care if she had some little crush thing on some stupid actor or something...most women do they just don't say shit like that.

I do. I guess I'm just a bitch that way.