Hi guys, i'm new here. I need your help.
I think i'm in love with a married woman. I met her in a hotel in Lago de Orta, Italy. In the hotel, she was in a room next to mine. When i was in my hotel room i spoke to her from the balcony. Her name is Samata. She is from Belgium. She has black hair and blue eyes. When i saw her sitting in the hotel lobby with her husband, i couldn't breath. I waved her hi and she smiled at me. Since then, i can't erase her smiling face. I think i'm deeply in love with her. I wish i could meet her earlier in life before she met her husband. When she left the hotel with her husband, i knew i will never see her face again. I know i need to move on and forget about her but the problem is i can't stop thinking about her.
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31-08-07, 02:14 AM #1
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My unrequited love
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31-08-07, 03:57 AM #2
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How old are you? You seem like you might be a teenager. Is that right?
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31-08-07, 04:06 AM #3
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How in the world could you be in love with her?
Do people really think this is how love works? I know I've been really harsh on here lately, but Jesus, someone has to.
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31-08-07, 05:14 AM #4
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You know, time is the best healer. Take up something interesting, hang out with your friend. Or take her telephone and then go out with her.
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31-08-07, 05:32 AM #5
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dude...for god sakes, she was just a damn hotel neighbor... really, have some common sense.
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31-08-07, 11:28 AM #6
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You're infatuated with her, not in love.
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31-08-07, 07:43 PM #7
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I'm 21. I think she is older than me but i don't know her age.
Originally Posted by Gigabitch
I think you're right. Time is the best healer. Only time can help get strong emotions into perspective. But just spending a lot of time thinking about her without actually seeing her, can cause my feelings to grow out of proportion. I love her but i know i will never see her again. She's a married woman so i could probably never have her. Because i won't see her again, in time i'm sure i will forget her. But i can't fall out of love with her over night, after all, and in some ways i need to grieve for this lost love. Originally Posted by Alex.ko
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01-09-07, 03:31 AM #8
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We all have an idea in our mind of "The Perfect One". Now you have a face to put to it.
It has nothing to do with who she really is or what her life is like. She's a fantasy girl.Spammer Spanker
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02-09-07, 01:22 AM #9
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i feel you should get over her quickly because i agree with mssleepy there is no such thing as love at first sight. The reason you fall in love with someone is because of her personality towards you and likewise for her. You had just met this girl, you don't even know who she is, well anyways i get over someone by putting every picture and everything they gave me away and then hang out with friends and keep yourself busy. thats my advice. good luck
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02-09-07, 06:17 AM #10
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What Giga said. You don't know anything about her, except her looks. She could be a total bitch for all you know.
Anyway, she's married, so forget it & find someone available.
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That's why it hurts so bad to know she is with another man and that i will never be with her. When i talked to her she seemed very friendly. I wish i met her earlier in life before she met her husband. But it might be comforting that i will never see her again so i can forget she ever existed and move on with my life. Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
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Is this what poses for a problem nowadays?
In terms of severity, this issue is about a notch below fretting over a stray string on a sweaterPeople are bastard coated bastards with bastard filling
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You knew the situation wouldn't be so well as a women usually wouldn't go to a hotel all alone.............but atleast her memories will be a little more faint as you didn't get to know her as much if you know what I mean. Otherwise, the cliche , time will solve much.
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this is so childish. This is not love
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This made me spit water out. Like, for real. Originally Posted by TDurden
Wow.
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