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[Charlie Boy II]

bottom line: shemales are freaks. They deserve our fear and scorn.

[Illusional]

i dunno.. that freak looking person in "little nicky", the adam sandler movie was pretty funny though.

raverboy

[BarbaraJean]

I haven't had a chance to read the other replies since Friday, but I wanted to say this...We didn't do anything this weekend like he said, however..I put a "straight" porno by his other one and he choose to watch the shemales....I don't know to me there is something fishy going on. I think with his background and so forth..He might be atleast bi. His family would disown him if they found out he was gay. So if he hides that and has a woman by his side, they wont think that...He has to have some kind of "sevret" life..That's how I feel

[Moonchild]

This is a weird idea, but if you put a note in the DVD box... One, you'll know he gets it when he opens it, and he'll know that you know. If that makes sense... And just make it something like, "We have to talk about this." Get it out of him. >< He should be honest with you, even if it's just that he gets off on something like that. And if that's all it is, it's not like he'll be less attracted to you or anything. Either way, dancing around the issue doesn't seem to be getting you anywhere...

[BarbaraJean]

I have asked but he denies everything...Even when I first found it he said he bought it for me..Yeah ok...He's given me the run around on it.

[squirrley]

Barbara, its just become too creepy, dont you agree?

Sounds like he's in the closet. Hope youre not the escape goat here. Maybe its HIS fetish???

[Tedel]

I have asked but he denies everything...Even when I first found it he said he bought it for me..Yeah ok...He's given me the run around on it.

Barbara, if you feel to uncomfortable with that, you should start considering splitting up and start looking for someone else. You don't have to bear anything you don't want to.

With regard to the previous replies... Sorry, I didn't mean to appear as an ignorant, but "sexual options" are not something I don't really want to learn about. For me, sex should be something straight: a man and a woman.

Now, please, don't start calling me an homophobic nor anything like that. I know there are people with other sexual "likes and dislikes" and I don't judge them. What I posted in the beginning of this thread was thinking on Barbara's preoccupations: a shemale video she didn't expect to find. Period.

[Vain]

I think he should definitely tell you if he is into that or not. Ask him want he wants from you and ask him why he denies it when there is so much evidence towards it all. This is what I would do anyway.

[Gigabitch]

bottom line: shemales are freaks. They deserve our fear and scorn.

Don't go all troll on us now, Charlie.

[IndiReloaded]

Barbara, if you feel to uncomfortable with that, you should start considering splitting up and start looking for someone else. You don't have to bear anything you don't want to.

^This is really the bottom line (yes, pun intended), tho isn't it?

FWIW, if some guy enjoys being anally stimulated during sex, its no BFD. That's for all you prissy pussies out there. There's more to life than tits & twats.

But if he's a closet gay or bi & doesn't want to admit it, well, that's something else entirely. Unless you're into that.

Communicate darling; its the same answer to everything else on this forum. Good luck.

[Junket]

FWIW, if some guy enjoys being anally stimulated during sex, its no BFD.

Stop it.

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[Illusional]

bottom line.. if you want talk about and be open with something as serious as this.. how will the future turn out?? i'm sure that you want children and along the lines, you know that children do the dumbest things.

raverboy

[BarbaraJean]

I just think of it like this. Let me tell you a small story. I met my boyfriend about 4 years ago. Gave him my number, and for the longest time, he gave me excuses on why he didn't call. ( i was delivering papers to stores and he was delivering beer to the same stores, that's how we met) Anyways one of the girls I met at circle k, knew I liked him and one day while telling her everything ( I knew her for 3 years we became friends) She said maybe he is gay. I said you think so? So that same day I seen him and I just said to him...Rach said you haven't called me because she thinks you're gay. So you know what he did? He grabbed me and kissed me. Then we have been together ever since...The first time we had sex he said...you can tell Rach I am not gay now..So besides that ....
He was married once.. ( which doesn't mean anything, I know) but he has been single for 24+ years before I came along. He said all together he has only been with 5 woman, nothing ever serious though. (Like long term relationship) There are a few times where he has done something and I have told him stop doing it before people think you are gay.. His work uniform buttons down the middle...So one night ( actually he does it fairly often)he unbuttoned his shirt and tied it at the bottom...What straight guy does that? Bottom line is, if he is trying to hide being gay, or bi, why would he admit that to me? Serious, if you were with a man and he told you he was gay, would you stay? I don't know if I could handle bi either because some where along the line, he might want to be with a man. I know right now all I am doing is assuming. ( the few relationships I have had and have "assumed" it always comes out that I assumed right. There is always though the chance of my feelings (gut) to be wrong. He is a wonderful man. He takes care of home, he's a loving and caring father. He treats my daughter like she is his. I would hate to throw that away on a gut feeling or suspicion.
The other night, his son brought up the gay people across the street, I made a remark and my boyfriend gave me a dirty look.
It is just little things that make me wonder. But if someone isn't going to be honest with you, how do you get it out of them? I know it prob shouldn't matter, but if I am with someone who is gay or bi...again I feel I have the right to know.

[BarbaraJean]

This is a weird idea, but if you put a note in the DVD box... One, you'll know he gets it when he opens it, and he'll know that you know. If that makes sense... And just make it something like, "We have to talk about this." Get it out of him. >< He should be honest with you, even if it's just that he gets off on something like that. And if that's all it is, it's not like he'll be less attracted to you or anything. Either way, dancing around the issue doesn't seem to be getting you anywhere...

I did this...he hasn't said anything.

[Kiechi]

How old are you both?