Was this question for me? Sorry I'm new here, so I wanted to make sure.
But, it's been coming for a bout 3 years now, started with sex once a month or once every two months, and now not at all.
Basically my wife is a bit sick (long term). So, on her bad days, of course, nothing, but on her good days, she cathces up on other things, and is rarely in the mood for sex.'
We have spoken about it, but I'm not about to force her to have sex with me, so I try to engage her in forplay, and I'm real nice about it, I treat her real nice, but nothing...