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    the age gap dilemma

    Ok so my last two relationships were with girls my age. how young is too young for me too date? im a junior in high school and i personally think dating a freshmen is pushing it. a friend of mine is dating a freshmen and he says there's some things that hinder the relationship because of the age gap.

    what do you guys/gals think?
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    thats not bad. Hell we had some chick in here who was 15 and with a 22 year old guy now thats an age gap brother!

    A junior with a freshman is nothing
    A senior with an a 8th grader is...

    Go for it!
    everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.

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    I think that any age gap in high school will work. But on the other hand if you were in college, that would be wrong. I say don't let it hold you back. I dated a freshman when I was a junior and nothing bad ever came from it.
    Last edited by Screwed_Guy; 26-03-04 at 11:17 AM.
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    Bingo, I did too. Dated her as a Junior..she was a freshman. Ended up gonig out for almost two years. The only women I can say I truly loved. Of course she was only a year younger then me, not two.


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    It's up to the person.

    Myself? I haven't dated a girl younger or the same as me in the past 4 years. I just seem to have outgrown them and typical college girls annoy me. Their personalities, their gossip, their stupid gidiness, the fact that all they want to do is get drunk and party. Just annoying all-around. So for ME, a girl my age is 'too young'. Of course there are probably exceptions to the rule. I just haven't met one yet.

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    Originally posted by sfalexi
    It's up to the person.

    Myself? I haven't dated a girl younger or the same as me in the past 4 years. I just seem to have outgrown them and typical college girls annoy me. Their personalities, their gossip, their stupid gidiness, the fact that all they want to do is get drunk and party. Just annoying all-around. So for ME, a girl my age is 'too young'. Of course there are probably exceptions to the rule. I just haven't met one yet.

    Alexi
    Very well rounded point, I agree.


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    wow! you guys respond pretty fast around here (I'm really starting to like this place!).

    what you guys said was really reassuring. I, for some reason, kinda percieved that as taking advantage of some one younger. but that is in no way my intentions. i just so happen to fall for this girl i've gotten to know a bit.
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    Well good luck, I hope it works out man
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    *glare* so are men.
    (question and answer of the day)

    why put on this macho thing?

    hello... why do you think they are the stronger species??? its the male ego. all have it. it's when they use it. lmao

    hell and they wonder why there are so many lesbians today.

    i think they all must of watched this movie in grade school while we watched that horrible "puberty movie" and theirs was "what to say to a girl....by men, for men"

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    right behind ya on that one Halla...
    everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.

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    GO FOR IT! IN HIGH SCHOOL -- ITS LIKE A TRADITION THAT FRESHMAN GIRLS DATE OLDER GUYS! WHEN I WAS A FRESHMAN I DATED A SENIOR--

    2 YEARS IS NO BIGGY... HAVE FUN AND BE SAFE!
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