Do guys flirt with girls they find unattractive?

[hardparty]

I'm really curious about this.

[GrkScorp]

I'm really curious about this.

I do, if they're nice people.. not because I find them attractive, but only because since they're nice.. I'd like to make them feel better about themselves.. I don't lead them on or anything.. just casual flirting and some friendly compliments..

[miSSleepy]

Charity flirting?
But what if these girls feel good enough about themselves anyway? Just because one might consider them unnattractive doesn't mean they need to feel better about themselves.

[Illusional]

i flirt with a lot of different people, but just because i flirt with someone, doesn't mean that i want to sleep with them. it only means that i'll sleep with them if i'm really REALLY fuct up.

raverboy

[dale]

i flurt with people alot and i like to do it tbh
theres no harm in flurting anyway

[whoweare]

Absolutely. I try not to lead girls on it is a pleasant experience for both parties. I think everybody likes to be hit on, given that it isn't creepy...but it can be reassuring for some people that might otherwise not get hit on as often.

[Mathias]

i flirt with a lot of different people, but just because i flirt with someone, doesn't mean that i want to sleep with them. it only means that i'll sleep with them if i'm really REALLY fuct up.

raverboy

Listen to Illusional. He knows stuff.

[Gigabitch]

Some guys flirt for an ego boost- they'll turn up the charm if they actually want the girl, but if they don't see anyone likely, they'll just flirt with the closest pair of boobs.

[v0ndutch]

Some guys flirt for an ego boost- they'll turn up the charm if they actually want the girl, but if they don't see anyone likely, they'll just flirt with the closest pair of boobs.

I don't know how true that is. I don't get alot of guys flirting with me, and I can see some girls which are really ugly getting plenty of attention.

I know that as a girl, i'd never ever flirt with some ugly guy no matter how nice that guy was.

but don't you guys think that pity-flirting is just pointless? at the end of the day, it's even counterproductive, because you just gave that girl unrealistic expectations and hopes, only to possibly have her heart broken later on.

[cuddlemonster]

I flirt with every girl i meet, ignoring seems stuck up.

[vashti]

I flirt with everyone: young, old, male, female. To limit yourself to only flirting with people you want to have sex with is pretty dumb, IMO.

First of all, unless you are a two-bit whore, there really aren't THAT many people you'd really want to sleep with, so you won't get much practice.

Secondly, flirting is ultimately just nice way to help make someone else feel good, which in return makes YOU feel good. I don't consider any flirting I do to be "pity flirting", because that would imply I somehow look down on the people I flirt with, and that would be pretty arrogant.

besides, thepeople who are not rountinely flirted with seem to enjoy the attention a whole lot more than the stuck-ups who are used to all the fuss and have come to expect it.

[Jbleezyj]

I flirt with a lot of girls despite there look even though I would never go for them it's just for fun and interesting, nothing leading though.

[Ellynn]

I flirt with some guys and I don't even realize it. It could be just to be friendly or I'm teasing them about something. I like them....but as a friend. With a guy I actually like......it's different. I'm definately more shy.

But, a question for the guys. Do you stare or smile at a girl you don't find attractive? Or, is that only reserved for someone you are attracted to? Even if you don't end up pursuing it?

[rthy2sms]

I do. I will flirt with girls who are good to me and care with me. So don't worry.

[CAM]

I'm really curious about this.

Depends largely upon how much they want sex; how many drinks theyve had; and how soon Friday night is coming to an end.