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    could you forgive

    your man/woman for cheating even if they came out and told you about it, and that they were sorry?

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    If I was serious about the person? Yeah, they'd get another chance. But if I ever had reason to suspect that it was happening again, whether they admitted to anything or not, no amount of apologizing would get them /anywhere/.

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    no, not on any level could I forgive them

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    ask wat happened why did he do that, depending on the answer i would make my decision

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    They say that women are more likely to forgive a one night stand than men are. Men go nuts over physical cheating and women go nuts over emotional cheating.

    Agree or disagree?
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    I guess I disagree, because I would slam his dick in a car door if he cheated on me.

    Hell, no I wouldn't forgive that.
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    I am with gigabitch's methods of resolving cheating too lol

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    I'd forgive and give a chance for a second time, but I'd probably never forget because you know that person has the capability to cheat because they've done it before.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tooxshort View Post
    They say that women are more likely to forgive a one night stand than men are. Men go nuts over physical cheating and women go nuts over emotional cheating.

    Agree or disagree?

    Hmm, I forgot about physical stuff. I'd have to go with Gigabitch's method if a guy cheated on me just to get a sex fix.

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    I couldnt forgive. Agreed, slam his dick in the car door. The whole issue arises of trust now. How do you trust him again?
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    Quote Originally Posted by tooxshort View Post
    They say that women are more likely to forgive a one night stand than men are. Men go nuts over physical cheating and women go nuts over emotional cheating.

    Agree or disagree?

    I think it depends on the circmstances. If you are talking about a BOYFRIEND, there is no real incentive to keep a cheater around. You don't have anything really invested.

    If you are talking about a HUSBAND, especially when there are children involved, it would depend on whether this was an isolated event, or a lifestyle.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by squirrley View Post
    I couldnt forgive. Agreed, slam his dick in the car door. The whole issue arises of trust now. How do you trust him again?
    I agree, the forgiving is the easy part. How do you rebuild trust after that? How can you be at peace that they will never do it again after they have so effectively proved you wrong? That's a challenge.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    I agree, the forgiving is the easy part. How do you rebuild trust after that? How can you be at peace that they will never do it again after they have so effectively proved you wrong? That's a challenge.
    Well, I'll bet it's really hard to cheat after getting your dick slammed in a car door...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Well, I'll bet it's really hard to cheat after getting your dick slammed in a car door...
    The tongue and the fingers will still be working


    And what to do you if the cheater is female?
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