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    what love is

    recently i am trying really hard not to think of guy anymore.. but it's hard.. tho i know what he did for me is heartbreaking..and this is my first time being dumped by a guy

    i met a guy few weeks ago and then he starts calling me after day after his work..
    cause of his work.. i always talk to him in the midnight. like 2/3 am..
    but tat's not really matter.. i enjoy talking to him.. i feel like he treats me as a good friend or even more?
    we saw each other everytime i came over to his working place and he treated me and my friends well.. and he kisses me and everything it was so sweet

    few days ago, i met him alone and then he led me to a room.. then he wannna to have sex with me
    after that day
    i never receive his call
    what does that mean?

    is the begining he said he is not that kind of guy who wants to have sex with all gurl..
    he "claims" that he's a good guy and stuff..
    why he called me and try to be nice to me
    if he just wants to have sex.. why dun he just tell me?
    why he plans for everything?

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    that was really difficult to read. is your native tongue english? you really didn't try that hard either way.

    it sounds like he just wanted a piece of ass. are you saying that you slept with him and you never heard from him again?

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    yaa..he wanted to sleep with me but i turned him down after that he didn't find me anymore..

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    You didn't even have a relationship!

    What's the big deal???

    everything is so obvious...

    The casual sex plan, he doesn't care about you!


    The hooker feeling is killing you...
    "You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you possess"

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    He was charming. He was attractive. He was a player.

    It happens. Just be glad you turned him down, because believe me, even if you had said yes, you'd still be waiting for his call.

    He's a bad guy.
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    i dun understand why guy simply wants a sex partner? i'd be glad if he treats me as a friend.. should i text him again? i texted him like an hour ago.. but then still no relied..i asked him if we still can be friend in the text msg but seems like he doesn't care anymore...

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    it seems like he does care about me before. like i told him i feel bad .. he'd spend time listening to me.. and once he felt stressful he talked to me and seeked for my advice. everything went pretty well before.. i really want to know if he treated me as a friend before or not..

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    Ugh. I think you should stop texting him. He misrepresented himself, tried to get in your pants, and the only reason he's still talking to you is that he still thinks he has a chance of getting in your pants.

    You really ask why a guy wouldn't be up front about just wanting sex? Are you serious? What kind of girl would go for that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by touche View Post
    i dun understand why guy simply wants a sex partner? i'd be glad if he treats me as a friend.. should i text him again? i texted him like an hour ago.. but then still no relied..i asked him if we still can be friend in the text msg but seems like he doesn't care anymore...
    I don't understand that either, and I'm a guy.

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    is that mean that kind of guy would never have proper relationship? by the way. he's a bartender.. i mean that jerk..

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    [ame="http://youtube.com/watch?v=JxrQVMaYObw&feature=related"]YouTube - jim carey "what is love"[/ame]
    God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by touche View Post
    i dun understand why guy simply wants a sex partner?
    Because guys are fundamentally different than girls. Yeah, we want relationships too, but we're generally more able to have sex partners because we can take the emotional aspect out of it.

    As far as this guy, he's not truthful with you, so you shouldn't be doing anything with him.

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    thanks guy here for giving me advice and opinions =] but i am planning to take revenge on him tho it sounds stupid but it's my first time being dumped by this jerk..

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    Don't do that. Just walk away.
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    Touche: The Vengeance

    She was just an innocent girl who wanted to feel loved. He was a great guy who knew all the right moves, but he had a secret.

    He was only after one thing.

    Now, the secret is out and the judgement day is here.

    Touche, one woman Vigilante from hell

    "This is the time yout learn mother******!"


    Bam!!



    P.S.

    What is love?

    Baby don't hurt me

    Don't hurt me


    ....No more
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    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
    ~Born to Live - Mavrik~

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