hey all,
im totally attracted to my gf and all like i think about her all the time n blah blah blah there are times when i even get an erection just kissing her....but when it came to having sex...things just wouldnt work, first night i had to blame it on the alcohol, then the next morning it happend again!! like it will go up for a bit then just die....arggghh what is going on? i had this issue with my former gf aswell the first few times we had sex...just nothing was happening...
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09-12-07, 11:26 AM #1
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what is going on!
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09-12-07, 01:11 PM #2
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wow
It happened to me twice.
I can't have sex after the swimming practise...but is not becuase im tired...
...is becuase I can't concentrate, I think that might be your problem: poor concentration, try to think about something "hot" even after you already have everthing "ready"
Perhaps you just get nervous or some biological problem...idk"You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you possess"
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10-12-07, 12:39 AM #3
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Originally Posted by nuevo
I have had that happen a few times. Sometimes i focus too much on the other person and dont realize that im not getting any pleasure and get soft. You just have to focus on how hot they are , or focus on how awesome it is going to feel to have sex with them.
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10-12-07, 06:34 AM #4
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Too much pressure, perhaps?
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10-12-07, 08:18 AM #5
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Yeh, guys. Get ready, with time it's only going to get worse.
You can try "mind over matter", psych yourself up into an erection or really let your imagination run wild or vizualize someone you find really hot.
But if you want an easy fix, Viagra is probably the quickest way to go.Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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I think a part of you is gay and the female body turns you off. Bahahaha.
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Originally Posted by baz_34
hey all,
im totally attracted to my gf and all like i think about her all the time n blah blah blah there are times when i even get an erection just kissing her....but when it came to having sex...things just wouldnt work, first night i had to blame it on the alcohol, then the next morning it happend again!! like it will go up for a bit then just die....arggghh what is going on? i had this issue with my former gf aswell the first few times we had sex...just nothing was happening...
Man that sucks for your gf. If I were her I would feel completely unattractive. Probably develop a complex...
jk but you need to fix that problem there...
