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    ok so i got dumped a few weeks ago. I just don't know what's going on because he told me that things weren't working between us and that he became depressed because of his work and that nothing was going right. Two weeks later he calls me saying that he made a mistake and that he wants to see me to talk. Next week comes and he totally bails on me. What is that all about? Whats going on?

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    I think that's called "jerking your chain". If you put up with it, you deserve it.
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    How long were you dating him before you broke up?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    What reasons did he give you for the break up?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    I think that's called "jerking your chain". If you put up with it, you deserve it.

    I agree in a less... intimidating way...
    people will treat you the way you let them treat you.
    Greg Behrendt from the book "He's Just Not That Into You" would not stand for it.
    This guy just wants to keep you hanging so if his next relationships dont go well he can still get some.

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