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    The big mess

    Well I was with my boyfriend for almost a year when I met the other guy. The other guy was sooo freaking nice I really liked him I cheated on my BF with him and he made me break up with my bf. I did it. The thing is that the new guy turned to be the most jealous
    man in the whole world. Even if we talk on the phone and if he hear my skype he freak out ! Basicly I coldnt talk with my co workers He said that i go out to much and the worst thing was that he didn't stop texting me all the time day and night every single second I cant do this non-stop i think its stupid I am 19 and he is 23 This texting thing is so childish...the last thing he told me was "**** u bich" because he checked my skype profile and he saw that i have add 4 more users ... I couldnt even tell him that I dont know those people . Now I am with my old boyfriend I dont really love him but I cant stay alone but I still think about the crazy guy and no matter what I still want t call him because during the time we werent arguing I think I had one of the baest moments in my life ...Should i call him ????????

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    No, you shouldn't call him. You should break up with your old boyfriend too and come to terms with the fact that being alone is NOT the worst possible thing that could happen.

    You shouldn't be too surprised that the new guy turned out to be psycho jealous; after all, you showed him you're a great big cheater, didn't you? What did you expect?

    And going back to the guy you don't love and cheated on is just plain rotten. Let that guy go and find someone who actually loves and respects him, would you?

    If I were the Dating Police, I'd suspend your license for three months.
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    I think Giga summed up perfectly everything I was going to say. You relationships with both guys are tainted, best to look somewhere else or find happines in being by yourself.

    I hope there was a lesson learnt in these interactions.
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
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    That guy.. is crazy. Cut him out of his life because he needs a reality check. and the guy you cheated on, shouldnt have taken you back and you shouldnt have let him. You cant do that to peoples hearts -_- You need to let go of both guys and find someone else.

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