scared of falling in love

[lastwish]

I'm falling in love. But I am soooo scared! What if he turns up to be a total A-hole and cheats on me or something? I wouldn't be able to bear it! Any advice on how I can prepare myself and not get hurt?

[Junket]

Details.

What have your interactions with him been so far?

Why are you falling in love?

[lastwish]

He has the qualities I like in a guy and also an X fator that I can't really describe. It's the way he makes me feel. I guess you can call it chemistry (but I am really not sure). I have known him for more than a year now...and I have never fall for anybody and stayed in love for that long. If I talk to him now I will feel as passionate about him as I first met him. I guess it is that lasting quality that exist in the relationship.

[Junket]

He has the qualities I like in a guy and also an X fator that I can't really describe. It's the way he makes me feel. I guess you can call it chemistry (but I am really not sure). I have known him for more than a year now...and I have never fall for anybody and stayed in love for that long. If I talk to him now I will feel as passionate about him as I first met him. I guess it is that lasting quality that exist in the relationship.

You're still in love with him because your relationship with him as pretty much the same as it was in the beginning.

So you talk with him often?

[lastwish]

You're still in love with him because your relationship with him as pretty much the same as it was in the beginning.

So you talk with him often?

Umm...moderately. About every other day. I don't like doing the same thing for an extensive period of time. I like variety and do things moderately.

[Junket]

Well, ask him out and see where it goes.

Just don't be clingy or anything like that and you'll be good.

[Mish]

I'm falling in love. But I am soooo scared! What if he turns up to be a total A-hole and cheats on me or something? I wouldn't be able to bear it! Any advice on how I can prepare myself and not get hurt?

Most of the time you can't. You just have to ride it with the flow. You should come into a relationship fearless or else you'll hesitate and shoot yourself in the foot.