forget her

[celticgirl2000]

my husband has had an affair and she split up with her, how do I make him forget her?

[bluesummer]

Whoa, what?

First of all, have you guys gone to counselling for this? How long ago did this happen?

Look.....my husband cheated on me too....several times. The stupidest thing I ever did was take him back. It was like giving him permission to do it again.

If you want to make it work, I suggest counselling, immediatly. Also, make sure he knows this behaviour is NOT forgivable a second time around.

[Only-virgins]

Whoa, what?

First of all, have you guys gone to counselling for this? How long ago did this happen?

Look.....my husband cheated on me too....several times. The stupidest thing I ever did was take him back. It was like giving him permission to do it again.

If you want to make it work, I suggest counselling, immediatly. Also, make sure he knows this behaviour is NOT forgivable a second time around.

Cool, this at least lets me know I can do it once.

[misombra]

lucky it wasn't my boyfriend cause somebody's dick would be being chopped off tonight.

[Only-virgins]

lucky it wasn't my boyfriend cause somebody's dick would be being chopped off tonight.

Yea right, you would be just like all the women here. "Wahahahahah ok just don't do it again..."

[misombra]

would you comfort me and tell me you'd never do anything like that to me ov?

[Only-virgins]

would you comfort me and tell me you'd never do anything like that to me ov?

That depends...can you keep your legs closed?

[misombra]

for you ov, no freakin way!

[Only-virgins]

for you ov, no freakin way!

Wait....wait....are you saying you would not open your legs for other people for me...or that you wouldn't open your legs for me....ah **** this...I'm out of here. lol

Best yet whocares? I can't believe this thread...my husband cheated on me so waaaahh..how do I not make him do it again...umm leave him. Help him forget her...man...where can I find a woman like this one. "aww poor baby you cheated on me....I'll help you forget her" lol

[misombra]

Wait....wait....are you saying you would not open your legs for other people for me...or that you wouldn't open your legs for me....ah **** this...I'm out of here. lol

aaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha did you just try one of you gskorp tricks on me?

omg ov i love you so much more since you had to go before me...

[Only-virgins]

omg ov i love you so much

Now we are getting somewhere.

[Sensetive]

can i join in with you guys!?

[Tedel]

Wow... What an experience...

OK, if he cheated you, you obviously don't need to ask him why. It's always easy to say he's a pig/as**ole/jerk, etc., but he cheated you because you failed him as woman as well (I mean, you stopped being what you were when he fell in love with you); so now, you need to go back to that.

He fell in love with you for some reasons. Just bring those reasons back.

[bluesummer]

but he cheated you because you failed him as woman as well (I mean, you stopped being what you were when he fell in love with you); so now, you need to go back to that.

Wow, hold on. Are you suggesting that it's in any way her fault that he cheated? She FAILED him as a woman? That's a dangerous thing to suggest.

I think HE failed HER as a loving, faithful partner.

[Mish]

Wow, hold on. Are you suggesting that it's in any way her fault that he cheated? She FAILED him as a woman? That's a dangerous thing to suggest.

I think HE failed HER as a loving, faithful partner.

This is one of the reasons I really empathize with women who had been cheated. I know deep down inside they are feeling that (That it was them who failed), even though they shouldn't be feeling that. What a huge blow to self esteem.