After a few dates - Silence!

[thealoneone]

I started talking to a girl online and we spoke everynight for hours on the telephone afterwards. So we decided to meet for a date and there was a great spark between us and we got passionate to say the least.

We saw each other a good number of times, she would text me everyday etc but recently this has all stopped. We were not wishing to rush into things but its concerning the lack of contact when we were getting on so well at many different levels.

I do think Ive been, well dumped.

[kalupe]

have u been trying to reach her? maybe she's just busy? if she hasnt been responding to your texts or answer your phone calls then maybeeee.. yeah, you know it. -.-

[thealoneone]

Since this week Ive text her first, the replies havent been as warm as before. 2 days have now passed since I last text her.

Why cant people just have the guts and say sorry it aint happening?

[kalupe]

because some assume that hinting is enough to relay the message? i mean, if she was still really interested..things would have been the same right? or if you want, you can just ask her about it if you're feeling a lil daring..

[thealoneone]

I text her today, and the reply was rather impersonal.

I replied saying, listen, you know my number if you need me. Afterwards I deleted her number from my cellfone.

I dont chase nor want people blowing hot & cold on me.

[kalupe]

good move. dont linger on something or even someone that you feel doesn't give a shit.

[thealoneone]

Ive been burned before and it wont happen again.

So sad, oh well. I wonder who is in my future.

[kalupe]

oh well, life goes on hun.

[vashti]

I text her today, and the reply was rather impersonal.

I replied saying, listen, you know my number if you need me. Afterwards I deleted her number from my cellfone.

I dont chase nor want people blowing hot & cold on me.

Smart move. I'm glad you didn't embarrass yourself by begging. I like your style.

[MadKat]

or maybe you just failed her test...LOL

[thealoneone]

What test ?

[lastwish]

What test ?

Read "I need help understanding a girl".

[SunRiSer]

I text her today, and the reply was rather impersonal.

I replied saying, listen, you know my number if you need me. Afterwards I deleted her number from my cellfone.

I dont chase nor want people blowing hot & cold on me.

Pretty smart, it prevents yout to start begging when you feel bad.
I think you did the right thing.

[MadKat]

Too much ego, arrogant perhaps?
IMO, still can be friends.
Who knows, maybe is just a little misunderstanding...

[thealoneone]

Ive never heard from her again lol