Questions Ladies: Ask a Gay Male

[DharmicLove]

Everyone on this board besides you seems to agree with him.

I think you are confusing your anecdotal evidence with reality. Even if you slept with 100 "straight" men, that doesn't mean that more than >10% of the population is gay. And as I pointed out already, according to statistics adopted by your community, your estimation is WAY off.

And you, my dear, are just as blind as he is. Just like a woman, you have to be in denial. You also, just like DM, believe what you want to believe, and you disbelieve what is TRUTH, because you dont like the reality of it. You dont like the fact that MOST men has at least once slept with another man.

But I'm done trying to help you out honey. I have proven, hollywood and televisoion has proven, the fashion industry has proven that....

gay is the way for 2008 and beyond, okay!?!?

[DharmicLove]

Everyone on this board besides you seems to agree with him.

I think that their may be a clash of ego here. DM seems like the type of person who is popular, strong minded, out-spoken, charismatic. Perhaps we disagree because our EGOS wont allow us to.

[IndiReloaded]

DL, you can say whatever you want but you're not going to convince anyone here about your numbers. At the moment, the best data that we have says that the homosexual population is approx 10% of our population. This also agrees with the genetic data that I am aware of, btw. No offense to your intellect, I'm sure you're a bright young man, but if humans were 50% homosexual, meaning those individuals didn't reproduce b/c they excluded the opposite sex as a sex partner, then the human species would have gone extinct long ago.

If you want to conduct a study & publish your results to prove everyone wrong, that is fine & I would encourage you to do so. But at the moment, you are the only one claiming these numbers, against all published data. Sorry, hun, but noone here accepts the "I tell you, I'm right!" argument without proof, especially when it contradicts common sense.

Oh, btw, I'm probably one of the most open-minded individuals you could ever meet, so before you say it, I assure you I have no problem w/whatever sexual orientation ppl choose to have. But I do appreciate unbiased data. Call it a 'fetish' of mine.

[IndiReloaded]

and you disbelieve what is TRUTH, because you dont like the reality of it. You dont like the fact that MOST men has at least once slept with another man.

To call something 'truth' requires proof, DL. I want to see some *unbiased* data that says this is so. If you can't supply any, then you are basically stating an opinion, which is fine, just so everyone is clear on that.

[DharmicLove]

DL, you can say whatever you want but you're not going to convince anyone here about your numbers. At the moment, the best data that we have says that the homosexual population is approx 10% of our population. This also agrees with the genetic data that I am aware of, btw. No offense to your intellect, I'm sure you're a bright young man, but if humans were 50% homosexual, meaning those individuals didn't reproduce b/c they excluded the opposite sex as a sex partner, then the human species would have gone extinct long ago.

If you want to conduct a study & publish your results to prove everyone wrong, that is fine & I would encourage you to do so. But at the moment, you are the only one claiming these numbers, against all published data. Sorry, hun, but noone here accepts the "I tell you, I'm right!" argument without proof, especially when it contradicts common sense.

Oh, btw, I'm probably one of the most open-minded individuals you could ever meet, so before you say it, I assure you I have no problem w/whatever sexual orientation ppl choose to have. But I do appreciate unbiased data. Call it a 'fetish' of mine.

Actually, if it is biased that I speak from my own experience, then fine, I will accept that. No one here has to believe me. The proof is in the down low phenomenon which is at the moment very popular.

Yes, you guys are right about the 10% of the population being gay. But this 10% only applies to OPENLY gay males. And I said this once before, but I dont think I casted a ballot that said I was gay. These people who do those statistics dont even know I exist. So, the fact is still, yes 10% of the population is openly gay. Great discovery. But as for the other >40%, these men remain in the closet, enjoyn the best of both worlds, while people like you read statistics and give in to stereotypes.

The human species would not have become extinct, because these men are never totally gay. But they do have wives and girlfriends who they inpregnate, but they also have Michael to give up some ass and some throat on Friday.

Billy might be ****ing you today Susan, but tomorrow, Billy will be getting dicked down by kevin. Susan, you wont know a damn thing about it.

With this said, I rest my case.

[IndiReloaded]

But as for the other >40%, these men remain in the closet, enjoyn the best of both worlds, while people like you read statistics and give in to stereotypes.

I'm not holding to a stereotype at all. The numbers are what they are. I just want to know where you are getting these generalized numbers from. While your experience is your own, it may not be representative of the entire population.

I think what you are saying, tho, is not that 50% of males are homosexual, but that about 50% have had a homosexual experience in their lifetime. Those are quite different statements, BTW. I could even believe it; I would just like it stated clearly whether there is data for this or it is merely opinion.

Don't take it personally, btw. You should hear me go after the homeopaths & religious fundamentalist folk.

[bluesummer]

lol... So by extension you could say the entire 3rd Reich was queer? And they were all terrified of Jews, Gypsies and the disabled, so they must have feared them too, correct?

Well no, because most of them were just carrying out orders. Also, a lot of the fear/hate at that period was psychological, pounded into their brains through the politicians and media. There were a lot of Germans, including members of the military and SS, that didn't believe what they were doing was right.....they were just trying to survive.

The study I read took a group of males, half of whom were vocally and aggressively homophobic, half of whom really didn't care. They showed them different video clips of various porn/sex acts and measured how much they were aroused (they measured blood flow to the lower extremeties or something). Whe a clip of gay male sex came on, the homophobic males showed considerably higher levels of arousal than the men who didn't really care.

[DharmicLove]

I think what you are saying, tho, is not that 50% of males are homosexual, but that about 50% have had a homosexual experience in their lifetime.

This is exactly what I'm saying. I was wondering when someone was actually going to read what Im saying. I've been saying this all along.

This is based on experience. On living the gay life and seeing what goes on with these so called "straight" men. There is a whole world that real straight people are in the dark about. My mission is to bring it to the light.

[DoesntMatter]

So I'm assuming you're conservative...

Breaking through to ignorant minds like yours is impossible.

You're one of those types of people who always stay in the dark, never becoming enlighened.

lol conservative politically? Fiscally yes. I don't have anything against gay people, I had an openly gay friend in high school. I just believe your number of 50% or whatever is bullshit

I never insulted anybody once, but what I did was I cleverly responded to a verbal attack from DM. Because clearly he was getting emotional over the topic, which was down low men. SUSPECT behavior!! I was just using him as an example, I didnt mean it literally. Hell, I dont know this man or what he does, but I still respect him and have compassion for him.

Yeah nothing personal. I thought you were a troll for a while and maybe you are one, but if you aren't I'm not gonna hold anything personally against you

[Mish]

You dont like the fact that MOST men has at least once slept with another man.

Just out of curiousity, how do you know that? How do you know what most men have done?

[DharmicLove]

lol conservative politically? Fiscally yes. I don't have anything against gay people, I had an openly gay friend in high school. I just believe your number of 50% or whatever is bullshit



Yeah nothing personal. I thought you were a troll for a while and maybe you are one, but if you aren't I'm not gonna hold anything personally against you

Just out of curiosity, when you people say troll, what is a troll? I hope its not those ugly things that live under bridges. Far from it, LOL. You are hilarious though. I kinda like you, in a non-gay way. We're actually kind of alike, we both have HUGE egos and we both DONT back down.

You're a cool dude though...

[misombra]

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[misombra]

Dharmic, here's another one: are people at all penalised in the gay community for overly promiscous behaviour? Or is it just no holes barred (no pun intended hahaha)

i don't think you ever answered this. interesting question.

[DharmicLove]

Just out of curiousity, how do you know that? How do you know what most men have done?

2 Words: life experience.

Its a fact that men just love me. "Straight" men love my style. They love that I balance my masculinity, with just a dose of femininity, resulting in grace. I walk and move very gracefully, men love that, women cant get enough. They love my assertiveness, my confidence, my livelyness and that I seem just like one of them. I make them laugh....they usually fall in love.

When I came out of the closet 3 years ago, I didnt do it directly. My brother had the nerve to call me out in front all of my "straight" friends at the time. Well, these same friends who would always have something negative to say about faggots or someone gay, were trying to get at me. Whenever a so called straight man learns that I'm gay, they quickly come knocking at my door. And they get mad when they get rejected. Shiiiiit I'm HOT...and I dont blame them.

Maybe I am being baised, but a straight man has never rejected me, they are just so easy.

[Mish]

Maybe I am being baised, but a straight man has never rejected me, they are just so easy.

Suppose no straight man has ever rejected you. It still doesn't mean that most men have had sex with another man at least once. It just means that no straight man has (allegedly) ever rejected you. Right?