Yeah.., it's a b*tch Neo.., but what can you do.., can't offer you anything more than that.., haven't exactly been able to see the effects "over time".., and even with my ex of 3 years.., no adjustment whatsoever.. Always fcukning up sex.., "pull out.., go in slow.., stop.., go out.., give me a moment.., etc".., I get it.., it hurts.., there's nothing she could really do.., but it's kind of hard to.., well.., stay hard with all those interruptions going on.., not to mention frustrating.., so I guess it's mutually frustrating.., and it's not exactly something that's in your control..
It mostly just has to do with her.., she's the one that needs to relax.., all you can do is spend more time on foreplay to get her relaxed down there.., go down on her prior to sex.., if she's penetration shy.., some artful fingering.., a brief clitorage.., and then just go in..., but that's really the extent to which you can help the problem.. the rest is up to her.., her willingness to relax.., and I guess her body's ability to adjust (the ladies will tell you how possible that is over time)
I vote for more medical research on this issue.., much the same way they have for Erectile Disfunction.., they should call it (UTBD).., let it stand for something scientific.., but leaving open the door for endless hours of calling it "Up-tight-b*tch-disorder" among guys.. "My girl has UTBD.., aww dude.., that' fcukn' sucks balls.., UTBD is the worse!.., Yeah I know.. what can you do..".., then some genius will come out with some wonder-drug to help the problem.., to help relax that naughty part down below.., help make it more comfortably warm and wet.., aching for something deep inside it.., and they'll call this medical-wonder.., Boozlaxyl or Liquerzyne.., but lots of "x, y, z" characters at the end of it to make it sound like a really official drug.., "i'm not a doctor.., but this sounds like some serious medicine".. Hey.., hey.., it's either that.., or a shirnk ray for the penis.., pick your poison..
Best,
GrkScorp
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