First-time Relationship Advice

[voc_jvd]

Hi
I am 16 years old and I am in a relationship with a girl for the first time. She has been in many relationships and is relatively "experienced" when it comes to dating and all the other things that go along with it. Normally she goes for experienced guys but she really likes my personality and wants to give me a shot. I am seeking advice on how to approach things with her (what she is thinking, when to make a move, intimate things, etc.). The sexual part of a relationship is very important to her and I am looking for advice on how to not screw things up with her. She has done 'things' with other guys before and is skeptical that I may not know what I am doing (I know what I am doing but I just don't have any experience doing it). We are very close and talk to each other on the phone every night and share secrets. I want to take the relationship to the next level without messing up. So, any advice, tips, hints, and other stuff would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!!

[Junket]

Any girl who starts off openly comparing you to other guys is already worth scrapping.

I hope this is not the case.

Question: How long have you been dating?

[DarkDwarf]

Ya... This doesn't sound like a relationship, more like a contest...

[Charlie Boy II]

yar but she's only 16. You can't hold her to the standards of an adult female. I remember the more "sophisticated" girls of that age used to get a bit giddy with their new found sexuality.

I'd just try and take charge a little bit. Not just in the bedroom, but also the things you guys do in the evenings. Make sure you've got things planned, exciting things. And don't run them by her first. Just tell her what time it is.

[Mathias]

yar but she's only 16. You can't hold her to the standards of an adult female.

This is pretty much it.

I always hate giving advice to the younger group that comes in here. You need to learn about relationships and have the joys/heartaches on your own at this age.

Nobody in these relationships will act rationally. Just go out there and learn.

And my favorite advice: I've never heard of pregnant tonsils.