the girl i like

[jirchuriki]

ahm i like this girl and we become so close to each other then i cant tell that i have feelings on her becouse i think she just think that i am just a friend of her then another girl come and she tell me that she likes me that why i choose her then the girl that i thought that doesnt have feelings on me some one tell me that she like me too and now she have a boy friend becouse she thought that i dont have feelings on her then now i ask her if she love her boyfriend but she tell me that she doesnt know now im so confuse this girl is my childhood crush we know each other since we are 7 yrs old do you think i should tell her my feelings or just wait until they break up? pls help me

[Yacker]

are you talking about 3 girls here? Girl 1 that is close but only might be friend. Girl 2 that likes you that you are with. Girl 1 has boyfriend but thinks she might like you. Girl 1 is your childhood crush. Ok I get it. Only 2 here... Well if you only chose girl 2 because she likes you and you don't really care to be with her. Why be with her? It sounds like it would be more worth your while to break up with her and figure out what's going on with Girl 1.

[jirchuriki]

hmmm but she have a boyfriend and i dont know if she still like me and how will i know it?

[Yacker]

Sometimes you got to take risk and just go in one direction. You may end out alone and hey what's wrong with that really?

[jirchuriki]

do you think i dont need to wait they break up? before i tell it?

[Asparagoose]

now she have a boy friend becouse she thought that i dont have feelings on her then now i ask her if she love her boyfriend but she tell me that she doesnt know

She doesn't know? What does she mean she doesn't know? I think you should just give her an extra little push, some incentive to break things off with the guy she's seeing right now. I don't think you have to go as far as poor your heart out. Just call her out a couple of times, hang out, do stuff together, sort of unofficial dating.

[jirchuriki]

i dont know to her why she said she doesnt know and i dont know too if i will believe it her boyfriend is one of my friend before. and yeah yesterday i treat her then we go to her house . you are telling me that im the one who need to make a move to make her break up with her boyfriend?

[Citycat]

Yes, but do it gradually. Call her to hang out with you, then flirt with her, touch her "unintentionally", see how she responds, then later maybe try to kiss her, then date her...

[jirchuriki]

and yeah sometimes she is the one who's touching me i dont know if that where just becouse she think where friend or she likes me. ugh girls are so confusing

[Citycat]

I wouldn't touch a guy if I don't really like him.

Make a move.

[jirchuriki]

even if you know each other? for a long year?