Help!

[*Bright_Eyes*]

I've been seeing this bloke and I've decided I want to end it. He's a really nice guy but he's just way to clingy and I can't cope. Trouble is I don't know how to finish it. I don't want to upset him which I know is going to be impossible and so that is really putting me off

[shh!]

I think you should tell him the truth. It will give him the opportunity to improve himself for his next relationship.

[starbuck]

If you don't want to be with him you have to rip the bandaid off at some point. He'll be upset for a while, yes. But he'll move on eventually.

What is worse, upsetting him now? Or staying with somone that you don't love? The latter is not fair to you or to him.