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Thread: Help needed...pleasee..

  1. #1
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    Help needed...pleasee..

    I've met this really great gal about month ago..
    We practically complement each other...
    Everything seems so perfect..

    I've had bad relationship experience b4..
    I know i'm falling in love with this girl and she says that she is too..
    Now here's the bummer...
    I don't want our relationship to be like a routine..
    I don't know if I should let myself go 100%...
    When I'm not around her, i go crazy..I find reason to call her, even to irritate her..
    So far, when we are not with each other..We are on the phone with each other...
    I know i'm falling hard...
    I have insecurity issues due to my childhood and relationship experiences...
    I'm always paranoid that she might have someone else on her mind..even if she's looking at me and telling me she loves me..AM i crazy?
    When she's talking to another guy, I feel an ache in my chest..
    What should i do please help??

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    She loves me? She loves me not?

    This girl i've met about a month back..
    After we started initially started talking, she have been spending more time with each other than anyone else..eat least about 15 hours per day..
    She told me that she's in love with me a few days ago..
    I found it hard to believe..
    I feel that I'm falling for her...
    Is it possible to fall in love in such a short time??
    She seems to genuinely care about me and my stuff..
    I don't know...
    She's hot and stuff, but she's been pretty lonely from what I can see..
    How do i know that if she really really loves me?

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    one is plenty.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Chill out buddy

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    Love is like Russian roulette...you don't really know if it's real until you pull the trigger to find out. Sometimes pulling that trigger takes a bit of time. Be patient and give your 100% to this girl.

    Stop worrying about her talking to other guys, she hasn't given you a reason to be jealous of her. She's told you she loves you, what more do you want? A legal contract? How about a lie detector test? You need to work on yourself and getting over your insecurities or it WILL affect your relationship with this girl. Even if it isn't now, it will eventually. So get a hold of yourself.

    Relax man, take it easy. Let thing go the way they're supposed to without getting all stressed about this.

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    You're going to drain the life out of this relationship before it even gets out of the honeymoon stage.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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    I had the same problem. Just chill out an be happy. Just stay in her face withoiut being irritating. The one I was with let me go after I couldnt see her for 2 months. Just keep at it and it should go fine

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