Sibling Frustration

[Kromat]

Okay, I just hate it when my brothers think so low of myself.
I know that I am better than what they say, but they always want to bring me down, like I'm nothing to them.
In terms of approaching girls, they say that I can't handle myself and shouldn't be the one giving advice.
I have had my fair share of encounters with females, and have been viewed as very approachable and easy to talk too.
Recently I started up a conversation with a girl when I was sitting beside her by the tree on break during our Walking
Pilgrimage, while my two buddies were around, and she even introduced herself
to me and we talked throughout the next while to our next destination.
On Sunday, it was the end of the pilgrimage and while she was going to head home,
I asked If I could get her #, so we can chat and hang out sometimes, and hugged her.
I asked, If she wanted my #, but to just call her and we can chat.

( She's 20, I'm 25 now )

A lady even asked, If I can her my #, so one of her friend's daughter who is 24, could call me.

.... It's all about how you talk to people and comfortable they are with you that matters.

I know I might not be an expert on the subject and also started fairly late at 24, but at
least I'm trying different methods, to see If I'm comfortable in that situation.
Every person you date is different, so you have to adapt.

P.S. Once I finally find a girlfriend, hopefully they'll leave me alone,
realize that I knew what I was doing and talking about all along.

[starbuck]

Sounds like typical sibling rivalry Kromat. I fight with my sister all the time just like I did when I was a teenager. Old habits are hard to break.

[anachronistic]

My brother and I fight all the time. Sometimes fist fights - less than we did in the older days though.

Even with my little sister sometimes; she's getting a lot older (3 years old), and she can pull full sentences together. She's always getting into my things, and accusing me of things I didn't do! Oh it will never end. Just the way it is.

[starbuck]

Don't listen to your brothers, Kro. You're a good looking guy, and you seem to be a very nice person. I have a feeling it won't be long before you find the right girl.

Go get her, you lion you!

[Kromat]

Don't listen to your brothers, Kro. You're a good looking guy,
and you seem to be a very nice person. I have a feeling it won't be long before you find the right girl.

Go get her, you lion you!

Thanks, your always good at cheering people up.

I now might have someone else that I'm interested in , man I hate how life
throws you lemons and you need to choose which one to put in the basket.

I have now realized that maybe going after the 20 right now isn't the best idea to have, there
is another girl closer my age (23) that is single & looking to find a dancing partner, and I might
just take up that offer and invite her to my dance lessons when they start up again Sept.17.

P.S. I'll most likely try to arrange something before then, just to get to
know each other better, and that she feels more comfortable around me.
If she says yes, she'll have a really fun time appreciate and what I have offered her.