I don't find girls my own race attractive

[Off2College]

Does anyone else have this feeling?

I'm a Chinese male but I have never found Chinese girls attractive. I've only jerked off once in my entire life to chinese porn, but I have jerked off many times to Indian girls, Latino, and Black girls. Every time I tell myself to try jerking off to chinese porn, I just give up halfway. I've also went after 2 Jewish girls in college, but later found out they only dated Jewish guys. I've also had crushes on an Indian girl in college...

I met a white british guy in China this summer, and he was only into Asian girls. My last roommate was Jewish, and he said Asian girls were more attractive than Jewish girls...

I don't think it's the culture, since I speak Chinese, and I just self-taught myself chinese this summer. But beyond that, I know plenty of North-American-raised Asian girls, but I don't find any of them physically attractive.

A big thing is that they remind me of females in my family... and I absolutely refuse to date any Asian girl that reminds me of my mom's personality. But this aversion to personality has somehow subconsciously pervaded into physical appearance as well. I have no problem with a white girl who has my mom's personality, cause I think a strong female is important for co-existence.

I'm not a racist, cause most of my closest friends from HS are Asian. I don't have too many friends in College, so things have been pretty diverse so far. I guess I'm still exploring this racial stuff...

[shh!]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... I wouldn't worry about this... most people (especially in bigger cities) are quite tolerant of interracial relationships nowadays, and I've seen lots of Asian/white relationships. Are you worried that your family would have a difficult time accepting another ethnicity into the family?

BTW - if your roommate thinks Jewish girls are unattractive, he is wrong. I know lots of very beautiful Jewish girls... far prettier, in fact, than the one you posted in the beautiful women thread.

[Off2College]

Well I will be perfectly honest, I don't think my parents will be very accepting of an Indian or Black wife. But then again, I'm the only child, so my parents basically allows me to do what I would with my life. They have never forced me to make any life-altering decision, for example, even college-choice.

Oh and although my roomie likes the Asian look, he would still ultimately marry a Jew, since he is a devout fellow.

[shh!]

Well I will be perfectly honest, I don't think my parents will be very accepting of an Indian or Black wife. But then again, I'm the only child, so my parents basically allows me to do what I would with my life. They have never forced me to make any life-altering decision, for example, even college-choice.

Oh and although my roomie likes the Asian look, he would still ultimately marry a Jew, since he is a devout fellow.

Maybe he'll marry an Asian Jew. (We have several Asian Jewish families in our synagogue.) Maybe you will, too.

[Arrow]

Does anyone else have this feeling?

I'm a Chinese male but I have never found Chinese girls attractive. I've only jerked off once in my entire life to chinese porn, but I have jerked off many times to Indian girls, Latino, and Black girls. Every time I tell myself to try jerking off to chinese porn, I just give up halfway. I've also went after 2 Jewish girls in college, but later found out they only dated Jewish guys. I've also had crushes on an Indian girl in college...

I met a white british guy in China this summer, and he was only into Asian girls. My last roommate was Jewish, and he said Asian girls were more attractive than Jewish girls...

I don't think it's the culture, since I speak Chinese, and I just self-taught myself chinese this summer. But beyond that, I know plenty of North-American-raised Asian girls, but I don't find any of them physically attractive.

A big thing is that they remind me of females in my family... and I absolutely refuse to date any Asian girl that reminds me of my mom's personality. But this aversion to personality has somehow subconsciously pervaded into physical appearance as well. I have no problem with a white girl who has my mom's personality, cause I think a strong female is important for co-existence.

I'm not a racist, cause most of my closest friends from HS are Asian. I don't have too many friends in College, so things have been pretty diverse so far. I guess I'm still exploring this racial stuff...

Does such a thing as Chinese porn exist? If so must be well hidden because of the government there...

I have the exact opposite problem of yours. I like all kinds of girls but the ones that turn me on are the blondies. However I'm blonde myself and I'm afraid that people would call me a nazi for that...

[starbuck]

I think I'd like to try dating one guy from each race at least once in my lifetime

[Kromat]

I think I'd like to try dating one guy from each race at least once in my lifetime

Which ones are you still missing and which gave a different perspective when you got to know them?

I might have to try others, if europeans don't work out.

[starbuck]

Which ones are you still missing and which gave a different perspective when you got to know them?

I might have to try others, if europeans don't work out.

Hehe alot so I'd better get started. The last three guys I dated seriously were native american/mexican, jewish and jewish.

Maybe I should start hanging out near the U.N. building.

[DoesntMatter]

How about a half Italian, quarter German, quarter English? Ever had one of those?

[starbuck]

Hehe, I'd give you a whirl if you were older. I'm an equal opportunity dater. I love Italian men, too. Mmm mmm.

Actually that sounds alot like me ethnically. Maybe it would be like dating myself

[Dasein]

I really don't see this as a problem. I'm friends with a Hong Kong born Chinese man and he has married a white Australian. He never was turned on by Asian girls which he freely admitted. Just date the girls you are attracted to.

[Kromat]

I really don't see this as a problem. I'm friends with a Hong Kong born Chinese man and he has married a white Australian. He never was turned on by Asian girls which he freely admitted. Just date the girls you are attracted to.

I like going after women of my nationality, since we have the same language and culture.
Other Europeans are also a possibility, If I come across them.
It's all in the moment, and how you connect.
P.S. No one said dating would be easy.

[fyte]

Your so lucky to have a parents like them, Chinese culture are rich man to rich woman only. Therefore their parents will choose and decide which man/woman are you going to marry with.

[Tedel]

Well, we can make an exchange. I'm a Latin and I like Asians

[Junket]

Asian chicks are funny lookin'.