First Time Anal

[Hot*Commodity]

Hi all...Men and Women I need your help. I love my boyfriend we are acutally sweethearts from the past. Currently we have stepped up our game to the next level. He is AWESOME in bed. However he wants to **** me in the ass...plain and simple, yes I want him to but I am scared. This is totally a new world for me...what should I do? He knows I have never ever done this before...and its not like he's not in love with my good good but this is what he is desiring from me and I want to fill his every need, but I dont want to be afraid. I have purchased astroglide, looked at movies, read books, internet reviews but am still jittered out...what and or how do I transition into this for him?

[miSSleepy]

Start with foreplay and doing things you're familiar with before moving into anal, is all i can suggest regarding transitioning.

[shh!]

Alcohol should help with the fear. Be sure he wears a condom, and that he doesn't put it in your vagina afterwards without changing condoms.

[Charlie Boy II]

I'm scared of anal and I'm a guy.

[miSSleepy]

Therefore you should be scared of anal, Charlie Boy.


o and...LUBE
hehe

[Dasein]

Hi all...Men and Women I need your help. I love my boyfriend we are acutally sweethearts from the past. Currently we have stepped up our game to the next level. He is AWESOME in bed. However he wants to **** me in the ass...plain and simple, yes I want him to but I am scared. This is totally a new world for me...what should I do? He knows I have never ever done this before...and its not like he's not in love with my good good but this is what he is desiring from me and I want to fill his every need, but I dont want to be afraid. I have purchased astroglide, looked at movies, read books, internet reviews but am still jittered out...what and or how do I transition into this for him?

This sounds very one sided to me. Why doesn't he do something for you? Also what is the deal with the ass these days? I don't think there is any porn that doesn't have anal with some wild screaming girl loving it.

I have an idea why don't you buy a big dildo and if your man will take it up the ass then you can too.

[miSSleepy]

O, the good old "I'll do it if you do it"
does that mean she also has to make her bf suck a dick before she does it to him?

[Dasein]

O, the good old "I'll do it if you do it"
does that mean she also has to make her bf suck a dick before she does it to him?

Do you like anal missleepy?

[miSSleepy]

never done it

[Petit Papillon]

Lol I have done it ONCE and very shortly.And I'm not going to do it again.Perhaps not in the early future.If I do it with my bf,it will be really CHRISTMAS for him.For me it's nothing nice,I can do everything else but not this.And I know he desires that,but I am not going to repeat that soon,hell no I don't like it,finito. But for my luck and peace,my bf is not that kind of guys who want's anal anal ANAAAL. He doesn't have to do that tho he loves it.There is sooo many other things that can satisfy both of us

[lesa]

Therefore you should be scared of anal, Charlie Boy.

I don't understand?

I'm scared of anal and I'm a girl.

If he won't let me do it to him then I am sure as hell won't let him do it to me. He wants that kind of adventure...s*&t I do too.

(I apology for my language but I don't understand anal as a one way thing. Any man that expects or desires that of me will be in for some 'cool' adventures )

[1averagejoe]

I have an idea why don't you buy a big dildo and if your man will take it up the ass then you can too.

As long as it's the same size as my dick, sure...when can I come over?

I've always been curious to put it up someones butt. But I would never force a girl to do it if she didn't feel comfortable about it.

But as for advice, take your time...slowly workup to the point where your rear is relaxed and ready to take it and use plenty of lube, if you think you've got plenty, put more. Also don't use the same condom for vaginal sex after he has put it up your butt. You can get an infection that way.

[lesa]

This sounds very one sided to me. Why doesn't he do something for you? Also what is the deal with the ass these days? I don't think there is any porn that doesn't have anal with some wild screaming girl loving it.

I have an idea why don't you buy a big dildo and if your man will take it up the ass then you can too.

I like your thinkng Dasein. I agree that it's the only way (for me). Women sometimes can be so willing to fulfill fantasies of these men (who probably got interested due to porn) at their discomfort at times. I need to fullfil some of my fantasies too

[1averagejoe]

I need to fullfil some of my fantasies too

Elaborate...I'm all ears.

[lesa]

O, the good old "I'll do it if you do it"
does that mean she also has to make her bf suck a dick before she does it to him?

It's not necessarily a I'll do it if you do it. I won't do it no matter. But if he really wanted his prostate stimulated, I would not feel one sided in the physical intimacy.

If he says, "hell no" then hopefully he will understand how I feel if he asks me to take it up the...