How many dates before sex?

[Sweetypie02]

Hi everyone. I may soon be in a relatively long distance relationship with someone (he's approximately 125 miles away) who is willing to come and see me. I was just wondering, how many dates should we have before we have sex? I mean, I don't want to seem like I'm not willing to have sex but I don't want to seem like I'm easy either. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

[Asparagoose]

Hi everyone. I may soon be in a relatively long distance relationship with someone (he's approximately 125 miles away) who is willing to come and see me. I was just wondering, how many dates should we have before we have sex? I mean, I don't want to seem like I'm not willing to have sex but I don't want to seem like I'm easy either. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

What kind of a question is this? You want someone to pick a number out of a hat and then stick with it? Why don't you just try being honest with yourself and this guy?

There's an interesting read I came across recently about Bateman's principle. It was totally eye-opening. At first I gained a whole new insight into why women behave a certain way. Then I took a moment to be honest with myself and realized I'm probably a beta male. That was pretty disheartening. After a brief moment, I realized exactly how selfish and self-centered that behavior is. But I guess a person's self esteem is very delicate and fragile. It comes down to a trade-off between how important is your pride and self esteem, and how important is this other person to you.

Only you know the answer to that question. Don't listen to any guy here who tries to tell you that if you're asking this question than you've already waited too long, and don't listen to any girl who tells you to take your time. You have to do what YOU feel like doing and not what someone else tries and convinces you to do. For as long as that's what YOU wanted to do, then you should feel confident in your decision.

[Only-virgins]

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