Here's how to do it: become a radio ham and join a couple of clubs. At all the ham radio events I've attended, only about 3 out of 20 hams have been women, and that's a VERY generous estimate. Most of the guys will be 50+, so if that's your age range, you should have no problem... but if you're younger, try a few different ham radio clubs, and the younger guys will start showing up. Even if you don't meet him, you'll at least have an interesting new hobby. I've been a radio ham for 13 years and gone to a lot of club meetings, so I know what I'm talking about. Good luck, and 73's to you!