i don't know what to think

[sshhh]

Im living with my boyfriend and the other day when he was at work i was flicking through his CD collection to find something to listen to while i did some work at home. While flicking through his CDs i found a few CDs marked 'photos' and got curious. I loaded them onto my computer and found loads of photos of him and his ex over the years. just general ones of them smilling at the camera together but loads of them in bed together and naked ones of her.

they were together for a few years but he broke up with her because they had a bad relationship, cheating on each other regularly. they were young!

the thing is he never takes photos of us, never keeps them, only has a few one of me and never asked can we take photos or anything like that. and the fact that these CDs were just lying around in our room annoys me. i dont know what to think! is he looking at them regularly, not bothering to get ones of me. im really confussed! help

[shh!]

Quit looking through his personal things. Unless you have other reasons to be insecure, I would just consider this momentos from his past.

And BTW - don't take naked pictures. You have no idea how many people come on here upset because their ex has naked pictures.

Finally, please figure out how to change your screen name. That one is taken.

[bluesummer]

It IS kind of distasteful, but you shouldn't have been snooping in the first place. It's his private stuff. You never know, maybe he just forgot it was there and forgot to get rid of it?

Yeah, and like shh said, don't do the naked pictures thing. They can come back to haunt you. That and sex tapes.

[jackie_k]

I did some snooping, but I don't know why. So don't feel that bad about it. We all make stupid mistakes sometimes. I think that they would just be from his past and not to worry. I also agree, don't take nude photos.