Anal sex - my girlfriend thinks it's "gay"...

[LIVERDETOX12]

My girlfriend seems to think that anal sex is an "unconsciously homosexual" act even when a male does it to a female...

I completely disagree.

What does everyone think about this?

How can it be gay if a guy does it to a girl??

[xO Lanna]

She probably thinks it is gay because (1) she is using it as excuse because she doesn't want to do it (don't blame her) or (2) because it is perceived to be "gay" because that is the only way two males can make love together besides oral.

[Charlie Boy II]

By that same logic blowjobs would be "gay"

[LIVERDETOX12]

By that same logic blowjobs would be "gay"

that is a great point...

[1averagejoe]

By that same logic blowjobs would be "gay"

Telling her that is probably just going to piss her off...lol

Ask yourself this, would you take it up the butt? I mean just because she's a girl doesn't mean it feels any different for her. Actually it can feel better for guys because of the prostate.

[LIVERDETOX12]

Telling her that is probably just going to piss her off...lol

Ask yourself this, would you take it up the butt? I mean just because she's a girl doesn't mean it feels any different for her. Actually it can feel better for guys because of the prostate.

the point of this though is not to do this with her, although i wouldn't mind, but it's just the fact that she thinks that it's gay... i just don't interpret having sex with a girl, in any way, as being gay

[vashti]

If you don't care to do it with her, then why is it a problem what she thinks? I'd just consider it an odd point of view, and forget about it. (Unless SHE is the one that won't let it go.)

[boobaa]

Just stuff her mouth and anal rape her.

[lesa]

It is not gay that a male wants to penetrate the anus of a female. It's just another form of sexual expression just like oral sex between heterosexual couples. And as such, I would use devices or such to penetrate his ass as well. He admires her anus and she can also admire his. These are heterosexual couples having another form of sexual contact. It is only gay if it is between a homosexual couple. The issue here is that the male may be making the female feel inadequate about her sexual organs because he is so fascinated about anal sex rather than vaginal sex and does not want to try anal sex himself (as if that makes him gay). So reassure her that it's not just for homosexual couples.

[DoesntMatter]

He admires her anus and she can also admire his.

Do girls really find guys anuses NOT horribly repulsive?

[Junket]

Women don't understand what the big deal is about anal because they starve their men of it for so long, it becomes an obsession for the guy.

I bet you if all women were willing to give their ass to their men, guys wouldn't care for it as much.

[lesa]

Do girls really find guys anuses NOT horribly repulsive?

It's succulent and deserves the attention of a caring lover. Once he is penetrated he will moan and grunt in delight and speaks that this is the best sexual pleasure he has ever had in his entire life.

[vashti]

I fear anal bacteria.

[DoesntMatter]

It's succulent and deserves the attention of a caring lover. Once he is penetrated he will moan and grunt in delight and speaks that this is the best sexual pleasure he has ever had in his entire life.

I don't believe you lesa. Not until you try this on me

[lesa]

I don't believe you lesa. Not until you try this on me

Sure, it would be my pleasure. ...but once you try it you won't want to settle for ordinary sex again.