Hello everybody,

my name is Marianne, i am from France, i started a thread some time ago without introducing myself, sorry, i thought i d do it now, better late than never.

I am 36 and sounding more and more like a character from Sex and the City (apart from design clothing and beautiful careers and NY), and i find it very scary, and trying my best now to be like them (actually they all end up settling down, but that is fiction).

The thing is, i am wishing to find a special someone, not waiting like a vulture, just wishing, but i gave way to a lot of horrible people (partners) with horrible deeds in my life and now i want to understand that love is not the opposite of self respect.

perhaps i can make it!
cheers