My GF won't give BJ's; but, she has a good reason for it...

[DoesntMatter]

If you want a good blowjob you'll have to see misombra

[ecojeanne]

i don't really understand why getting a bj is so important especially considering her circumstances, tbh i think pressuring her is unfair and i think ultimately it is something i consider a treat given to guys on very very rare occasions. if she doesn't want to then you need to make this sacrifice if you care about her at all.

EDIT: and i'll be honest here, i can't stand giving a bj but i will if i care deeply about a person but only as a treat like i said. you are probably affecting her badly by continuing the pressure and you may find yourself broken up if you continue with this

[Cain]

i don't really understand why getting a bj is so important especially considering her circumstances, tbh i think pressuring her is unfair and i think ultimately it is something i consider a treat given to guys on very very rare occasions. if she doesn't want to then you need to make this sacrifice if you care about her at all.

EDIT: and i'll be honest here, i can't stand giving a bj but i will if i care deeply about a person but only as a treat like i said. you are probably affecting her badly by continuing the pressure and you may find yourself broken up if you continue with this

Considering that he said that receiving oral is a requirement, maybe breaking up would be the best thing to do.

[Cain]

If you want a good blowjob you'll have to see misombra

I like how Misombra edits posts to cover her lack of blowjob skills.

If you don't swallow, you fail.

[carl1222]

Cain: "Considering that he said that receiving oral is a requirement, maybe breaking up would be the best thing to do."

Cain may well be right. Serious sexual incompatibility is very difficult to overcome or ignore for the success of the relationship long-term.

Carl.

[Jonas]

Thanks Carl. I'm starting to come to the same conclusion.

[Jonas]

i've had the same issue with abuse, but was able to get over it and now have now issues with it. be gentle with her and don't push it. i think if a girl really loves you she should have no problems overcoming it. however i don't know how badly she was abused and don't want to make any assumptions. how old is she once again?

Indignant,

Can you contact me via PM? The board won't let me contact you directly, since I'm too new.

Thanks, I really appreciate your help.

- Jonas

[lesa]

If this bj is so important to you, I say break up with her because this is a dealbreaker for you. Why on earth would you want her to do this for you when she said she did not?

[ecojeanne]

i'm starting to think men need to be castrated to become decent caring people to their gf's

[misombra]

I like how Misombra edits posts to cover her lack of blowjob skills.

If you don't swallow, you fail.

i never tried to cover them. in fact my telling everybody here is presicely why you know.

you are covering YOUR fantastic blowjob skills.

[lesa]

i'm starting to think men need to be castrated to become decent caring people to their gf's

Castration is not needed. They need to stop watching all that pornography.

I'm no porn star and I do not want my man to be one.

[DoesntMatter]

I want porn star sex. Someday

[ransom_nite]

I want porn star sex. Someday

Porn star sex? With ugly chicks with loose vagg's whilst faking orgasm? Nahh not for me.

[Dasein]

OP why don't you consider seeking professional advice on this?

If you approach this the wrong way you verge on losing the relationship altogether.

[Lipp]

This sounds like failing a test when you score 90%. End a relationship just for that one thing?

Well, if it means that much to you and the rest isn't worth enough to keep at it, go ahead and break up. Damn sad in my book though.